red_rising

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[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Using the term ‘handicap’ implies limitations out of their control, which I don’t think is true. For most of them the more accurate term would be ‘willfully ignorant.’

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

I totally agree. It makes me so happy to see this new generation that’s completely redefining what fatherhood looks like.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 73 points 6 months ago (5 children)

This thread already has so much great advice that it made me a bit teary eyed reading it. I don’t know if I can contribute much but I’ll try.

  • 90% of parenting is just showing up. Your physical, mental, and emotional presents will mean far more to them than anything else. That’s what will make them feel valued and loved.
  • Fuck gender norms. Regardless of if your child wants to learn to sew, fix engines, or both, embrace it, encourage them, and be there with them every step of the way.
  • They don’t really have any perspective on things so small things to you are huge things to them. Don’t just dismiss their feelings.
  • like everyone else said, listen to them. Like really listen every time.
  • Don’t over think it. If you’re asking these questions, your head and heart are already in the right place. Trust yourself.
[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 7 points 6 months ago

You won’t always know what’s wrong with your daughter or what she needs but if you listen to her, like really listen, she will tell you which is so much more important.

In the long term, her being about to tell you things will make her feel safe and validated, it will strengthen your bond with each other, and it will help her develop the emotional intelligence to express herself in a healthy way that so many kids are missing these days. It’s win win win.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 10 points 6 months ago (10 children)

What is a better alternative, aside from just buying the media directly?

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

Taking the expression ‘going out on top’ a little too seriously….

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 9 points 6 months ago

One persons nightmare is another persons fetish.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 15 points 6 months ago

Before legal fees and taxes of course.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 10 points 6 months ago (5 children)

Assuming the mother/baby don’t die in the hospital waiting room bathroom because the hospital refused treatment.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 21 points 6 months ago

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[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 35 points 6 months ago (4 children)

The transgender population, especially transgender youth. If one group’s rights can be stripped away, then any group’s can. They are the front line soldiers against the spread of fascism.

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