CandleTiger

joined 1 year ago

Ok, uhhhh… you are saying here that difficulty understanding the words to music is an autism thing?

[–] CandleTiger@programming.dev 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

(Not a woman): my partner does not like receiving oral sex or other kinds of sex where she is mostly passive/receiving, because she doesn’t like feeling put on the spot and obligated to react.

If your partner has been not getting much from sex for a long time now, then she is also probably feeling a lot of pressure to change and behave right and react as expected which would be not pleasant for her.

Maybe ask her if she wants to play a game where she reads a book out loud (sexy book or bit sexy book) or play a cozy video game or some other activity where you get to enjoy yourself playing with her body for potentially a long time, and she has something else to pay attention to besides her own sexual performance? That would probably also go well with deep toys on low power as well.

Just, maybe avoid Call of Duty for this one. It has to be a lazy activity she’s doing. If her attention is successfully diverted 100% to the point the sex is an irritating distraction then that’s not any fun for anybody

[–] CandleTiger@programming.dev 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I bought my very own gas station squeegee at a car parts store . Life-changing events.

[–] CandleTiger@programming.dev 1 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I’m very ignorant here — what kind of discrimination in health care are we talking about? What does that look like, like the doctor just doesn’t take you seriously?

[–] CandleTiger@programming.dev 5 points 1 month ago

That would be super awesome if navigation apps had profiles.

Like, when I’m driving my car I go the speed of traffic or maybe a little fast.

And when I’m driving my motorhome I go 65mph tops and really slow up hills.

But totally nobody does this. Even the RV Trip Wizard app (built around Here navigation) makes you choose between “I drive XXX speed on average” (ignoring actual speed limits and conditions, just assume constant speed) or just assume normal traffic.

Why can’t they recognize that different drivers drive differently???

[–] CandleTiger@programming.dev 21 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

This image appears to have been color-enhanced, in case anybody is concerned with reality. A brief image search (which will no doubt do wonders for my reputation with the CIA) shows cheetah ~~testicles~~ scrota range from tan to slightly-orangish-tan

[–] CandleTiger@programming.dev 20 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I never asked for a credit score.

Unfortunately the credit agencies don’t have much reason to care what you want. There are people with money who asked for everybody to have a credit score

[–] CandleTiger@programming.dev 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Truth. RVs and sailboats are not here. But I feel confident I’d get all the discussion I need if I wanted to install Linux on my sailboat.

[–] CandleTiger@programming.dev 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

We pushed “the guide to getting it on” on our children at a relatively early age and invited them to discuss, which ensured they would never, ever, ever ask us anything about sex.

[–] CandleTiger@programming.dev 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think the issue is that the people writing the captions don’t understand and can’t write it down.

Obviously the producers could fix that but it would be a process change, which would take some attention from a powerful person who cares about the issue. As you imply, that seems to be in short supply.

[–] CandleTiger@programming.dev 8 points 1 month ago

First I’m hearing this claim — what did Apple do to Bluetooth hearing aids? My mother has been using Bluetooth hearing aids for a couple years now that have nothing to do with Apple, are you saying Apple was standing in the way of that?

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