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[–] Meltrax@lemmy.world 40 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I have learned the difference between "your" and "you're".

[–] racketlauncher831@lemmy.ml 4 points 6 days ago

For me, it's correcting people that.

[–] tupalos@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

I guess I’m still growing as a person

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 17 points 6 days ago

I find it takes much, much longer to heal from injury. That's the main downside I've experienced. When I say longer - when about 8 yo I broke my arm, it took 5-6 weeks to heal, maybe 10 to really heal, stop swelling ever and feel exactly like the other. When about 45 I broke my finger and it took 2 years to fully heal and feel like the rest of them.

But it also takes longer to get mad, I'm less irritable, more perspective I guess. Easier to feel happy/satisfied, too, it's closer to the surface now.

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 16 points 6 days ago

You can't stand grindy videogames. You see young adults as children, and their behavior becomes irritating.

[–] Lennnny@lemmy.world 19 points 6 days ago (2 children)

TURN UP YOUR HEARING AIDS OLD TIMER

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[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 20 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You mix up your and you're.

[–] Ixoid@lemm.ee 11 points 6 days ago (2 children)

My tolerance for incorrect use of your / you're gets lower.

[–] hogmomma@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

It's funny, because my tolerance of people correcting other people's grammar or spelling gets lower.

https://blogs.illinois.edu/view/25/76120

https://www.sciencealert.com/people-who-pick-up-grammar-mistakes-jerks-scientists-find

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[–] DirigibleProtein@aussie.zone 13 points 6 days ago

The music I grew up with is β€œclassic” and the β€œhits of yesterday” that I don’t recognise on the radio is β€œyoung people’s music”.

[–] pol5xc@lemmy.ml 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] tamal3@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Deadlifts fixed my back pain completely. Ymmv.

[–] pol5xc@lemmy.ml 2 points 4 days ago

thanks, i'm trying with swimming now, hopefully it'll help

[–] Alphamars@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago
[–] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

The amount of candles on you're birthday cake are so numerous that the fire department comes out.

[–] andallthat@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago (2 children)

For me it clicked when pretty girls started tallking and being nice to me

[–] cone_zombie@lemmy.ml 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It's probably because you stopped caring so much and acting awkwardly around them

[–] andallthat@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

It is! Hence the realization that I got older. Sorry, re-reading my comment above I wasn't clear

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[–] Skanky@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

Your perception and outlook on time changes a lot.

Everything seems to go by faster. Waiting for something doesn't seem that bad when it's in terms of days instead of hours, weeks instead of days, months instead of weeks, years instead of months.

When making long term plans, "how long you think you'll live" becomes more and more of a factor.

[–] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] tupalos@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 2 points 5 days ago

For me sometime soon after 40.

[–] Anonymouse@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

You look at your weekly pill container to know what day of the week it is.

[–] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 6 days ago

Asking what the signs of getting older are?? πŸ™‚

[–] MrAlternateTape@lemm.ee 7 points 6 days ago

My knees. I am past 30, and my knees somehow don't want to bend anymore.

On the other hand the older I get, the smarter I get about life. Do some physical activity on a regular basis, keep some long term goals in mind, don't let your emotional state depend on external factors.

Find balance in your life and know your limits and you will be all right.

[–] Kiwi_fella@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Worrying that every unexpected pain in your body will be cancer.

[–] klisurovi4@midwest.social 5 points 6 days ago

I've been like that since 15, that's just being a hypochondriac.

[–] MoonMelon@lemmy.ml 6 points 6 days ago

School dreams are very rare now, and when I have them the "cast" is all people from various adult jobs. I never knew my actual school mates as adults, so I guess my brain just can't fill it in. If I was actually transported back to high school and saw them again it would probably feel like being surrounded by babies, so makes sense that "central casting" sends in adult stand-ins.

I'm always an adult too. What's weird is I remember being a child. I remember my body being clumsy and awkward, I remember being confused by adult concepts, I remember being small. It never comes out in childhood dreams, I'm always my present age.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

Pain. Just pain and exhaustion doing everyday things. Recovery time from the same pain taking longer and longer as time goes on.

I'm not even 30 yet, and it really puts a damper on things.

[–] SupraMario@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago (3 children)

You might want to get that checked out. You shouldn't be feeling pain to that level in your 20s. I'm 40+ and do not have pain and exhaustion from everyday things. I work outside daily on my farm as well. So you really shouldn't be feeling this at 20.

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[–] BearOfaTime@lemm.ee 8 points 6 days ago

Letting autoincorrect slip in homonyms

[–] mukt@lemmy.ml 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

That you are alive is the surest sign.

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[–] Amaterasu@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Making interjections when standing up, from a chair, from bed, getting out from your car seat, etc …

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[–] Jourei@lemm.ee 5 points 6 days ago

When it gets "weird" wanting to do the young people stuff.

[–] Mangoholic@lemmy.ml 5 points 6 days ago

You get free dlc every year, that you can't uninstall, for example: Cannot move neck after sleeping in a slightly wrong position. Random foot pain. Extra hangover. Blurry vision in the distance.

[–] SplashJackson@lemmy.ca 4 points 6 days ago

Pimples just becoming permanent weird little bumps

[–] cyberpunk007@lemmy.ca 5 points 6 days ago

When I get up after sitting on the ground for a while my knees are stiff.

Get off my lawn.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

One of the biggest and most terrible things that ever happened to my province, which CONSUMED everything for a long time back when I was a teenager and people still talk about very passionately to this day, well meeting someone who has NO idea what this is makes me feel old.

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