[-] kwking13@lemm.ee 33 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

How old is this cousin? Maybe they don't know how to deal with difficult information yet

[-] kwking13@lemm.ee 1 points 4 months ago

Clearly you don't understand how slow things are in government. 6 months is a really fast turnaround for the government to get anything done.

[-] kwking13@lemm.ee 4 points 8 months ago

Sticking your head in the sand is a great strategy for never helping to enact change. Knowledge is power, learn what you can.

[-] kwking13@lemm.ee 13 points 9 months ago

Wow, I feel this lately. One day at a time, but you're telling me Christmas is in...18 days?

[-] kwking13@lemm.ee 5 points 11 months ago

Well that's a more specific situation. Personally I try to get things done ahead of time in group projects. That just feels respectful to the others. I can agree that it's a bit selfish to wait until the last minute when others can't get their stuff done until I do.

I just wanted to point out that procrastination shouldn't be considered selfish. Different people have different working styles that work best for them. It's a compromise to incorporate different working styles and the person who likes to do things right away and then relax should realize that there's other styles and not everyone can operate the same way as them.

[-] kwking13@lemm.ee 8 points 11 months ago

Woah woah woah... selfish behavior? What do you think you know about procrastinators?

I love that I procrastinate. It helps me to think about the issue/task for a longer period of time and allows for freedom to complete other tasks or relax instead of constantly stressing about getting things done immediately. I used to complete jobs right away and was rewarded with ever increasing workloads until I broke down from the amount of stress put on me daily. Procrastination isn't something done to spite or hurt another person/entity...you have me a deadline and I completed it before it was due. Shouldn't matter how I went about completing it.

Procrastinating has taught me how to work under intense pressure when it's absolutely needed, and I can respond in the moment with confidence in my ability. It helps me to find time to be more connected with my coworkers without being overburdened with an ever-increasing workload. If I don't take the time to be true to myself as a procrastinator, you will get less and less quality work out of me as my mental capacity becomes overloaded. It's selfish to abuse those that want/need to take their time while still working under last minute pressure to get it done.

Not everything is so black and white just because it doesn't fit with your style of working.

[-] kwking13@lemm.ee 5 points 11 months ago

Just stare into her eyes and the answer will be revealed.

[-] kwking13@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I- I don't really know, sorry.

II- Yeah I'm not really sure tbh.

III- The purpose of your life is up to you. You are part of something bigger and no matter what you end up doing, you have a place in this crazy universe. Nothing would exist without you and you wouldn't exist without everything else. Your balance is the world's balance, and you'll feel your purpose when you realize your connection and influence on everything around you. Also.... 42

[-] kwking13@lemm.ee 24 points 1 year ago

Thanks for reminding me to water my one and only plant....it was suffering! 🫣

[-] kwking13@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I appreciate the concern and know about the potential negative consequences. But with all due respect, you don't know me or the type of news I seek out or how I feel about it. I prefer to know what's going on around me and the world so I can work towards making impactful changes. That doesn't mean everyone else has to but it works well for me.

[-] kwking13@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago

That's may be true for you, but a lot of these type sites are a great source for news and information about the world. Ignorance is bliss as they say, but the world keeps spinning whether or not you pay attention to it. I'm not saying you HAVE to get news from social media, but that's what I primarily use it for.

[-] kwking13@lemm.ee 18 points 1 year ago

And those owners can almost always find a compassionate ear from their loyal rich CEOs who don't want to upset a however many years relationship of "I'll scratch your back if you scratch mine" kinda thing.

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