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The above dress is from a UK store called Apricot. Similar stores might be Oasis.

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submitted 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) by Pat12@lemmy.world to c/femalefashionadvice@lemmy.world

Would this type of dress in navy blue be too much to attend an Andrea Bocelli concert?

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

i love the yellow pulling from the blazer

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

and unfortunately it's the fabric for most of the readily available clothes now!

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Ignoring the fact that gender dysphoria is a real thing whereas hysteria isn’t,

I'm not sure how you can make this your premise; back then hysteria was very much "a real thing". Also one could say that doctors have manipulated people undergoing surgery now into giving consent

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 7 points 6 months ago

socialism has been shown to be worse,

uh...

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

I got downvoted recently for saying "If you’re friends with someone, wouldn’t you want to know if they’re also friends with someone problematic?" and "I would definitely want to know if my friends were close with people who’d been in prison."

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

Though to an extent, the lack of community, especially amongst children is due to the complete lack of independence and they have to depend on their parents to drive them everywhere.

where do you live that there's not even a playground or a residential street within walking distance of your home?

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

When I'm feeling blue about something for a while, I do try to exercise daily. I don't know whether or not endorphins make a difference for me but I do not that I feel more awake after exercising. I like the feeling that I accomplished something for that day and it keeps my routine regular. The alternative that I can spend a lot of time thinking about something troubling me and I'm not productive.

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 19 points 6 months ago

I wouldn't use "never get to experience" but i would say it's much harder to have that real sense of community that we easily found in the 90s, early 2000s, etc.

People are more connected to others but still more isolated from others. We were less connected to other people back then so people made a real effort to come up with fun activities and bond together. For kids, it's the lack of just playing outside in the neighbourhood with friends. For adults, it's the lack of third places and community/religious events.

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

Orr would defend his Communist friends to his Fascist freinds and he would defend his Fascist friends to his Communist friends. No one ever defended Orr because he was too weird.

yes this is basically what I mean

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

I know people who were Christians in Afghanistan, who were outed to the government (Taliban). The word they use is “spy”. It may not be the normal, English use of the word, but it’s the word that real-life people who have been on the receiving end of the betrayal use.

This is basically what i mean; someone who you can't fully trust about their allegiance.

That is really awful what happened to those people; are they ok now?

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

Would you rather he, as a non-government affiliated citizen, pick a side? War is stupid. Communication is great. Maybe this is naive of me, but I think the world would be better, and maybe require less war, if everyone had equal access to communication.

I recently read about Ted Hall who shared nuclear secrets with the Soviet Union because he thought everyone should have equal access to nuclear weapons and this would prevent another world war.

Your logic is similar and it's not a good thing.

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 4 points 6 months ago

That is such a heads-up for me in terms of making assumptions based on my own privilege, and I apologise for doing that here. I’m very lucky to be able to discuss politics without fear.

it's ok, everyone has their own problems

my wording was maybe not clear

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submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by Pat12@lemmy.world to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

The closest word I can think of is a sycophant but that's too strong word and not exactly what I'm looking for. The word I'm thinking of has negative connotations and it's for someone who is friends with different groups but only at a superficial level and isn't necessarily honest about who all they're friends with. This person would be seen as untrustworthy.

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submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by Pat12@lemmy.world to c/cooking@lemmy.world

many east asian dishes included some ready made sauce like 豆瓣酱 or 柱侯酱 in chinese cuisines or 고추장 in korean cuisine. These sauces make our dishes delicious but unfortunately they are very high in salt and/or sugars. Is there some way to make the dishes with these sauces from scratch or without such high salt/sugar? We often have to add sugar in the dish in addition to the sauces. Thanks.

I'm sure this is a similar problem in other cuisines but my question is just about east asian cuisines.

edit: i'm referring to homemade food, not restaurant food.

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submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by Pat12@lemmy.world to c/cooking@lemmy.world

For example, pad thai should be balanced between sweet, sour, and salty. Indian dishes don't have meat as the feature in a dish but rather it's added for some texture; the dish itself is the feature. Hunan cooking is dry and hot and often sour and differs from Sichuan cooking which it's often compared against. Generally speaking in Asian cuisines, if you don't cook the spices exactly correctly, it will change the taste of the dish quite a bit.

As a francophone, i can say that french-based cooking is an art as the ingredients are traditional basics that are in season. The food should be delicate or have a cut (e.g. a creamy cheese should have something acidic to cut it like a nice wine). It is the combination of the techniques (method of cutting ingredients like julienne style or method of cooking like flambee, saute, etc.) to create the dish.

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Recently found Bronx and Banco and it looks very similar to Self-Portrait. Is the quality different?

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I got into a mild accident last week; after being checked out, i don't have anything broken but i have torn ligaments in one of my feet. My recovery has mostly been resting my foot and not putting pressure on; i'm not allowed to go for a walk. Would I be able to go swimming? This way I can keep my foot from being stiff but i can do some exercise.

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I'm obsessed with tailored high waisted shorts (example: https://endlessrose.com/products/copy-of-tailored-shorts) and dolfin shorts for every day and after swimming

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submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by Pat12@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

It's going to be very cold over the next few days in my area and I'd like to buy something for the people who are homeless, particularly ones who won't be in a shelter.

For budgeting, there is one shelter in my area for adults and one for children/teenagers. I don't know how many people would not have shelter but in the past, I have planned for 40 people when providing food for people in a shelter.

My budget is about $200 USD; what would be the most useful? thermal blankets? hot food?

Edit: thanks to all who responded. I called the shelter and the most needed items are (1) sleeping bags (2) very warm gloves to prevent frostbite (3) boots

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title says it all. I have a leather midi skirt which i would like to wear with a blouse but tucking in the shirt makes the skirt look bulky.

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by Pat12@lemmy.world to c/femalefashionadvice@lemmy.world

What style of blouse would you recommend for a recent widow? Nothing too bright in colour and preferably high neck. Looking for some everyday tops and sweaters recommendations.

edit: it's not me but a relative that lost their spouse but thank you for the nice messages

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