Not diagnosed here too. 99pct sure I'm in the club. For 47 years I've been written off as "absent-minded" (yet everyone seeks my advice for major life shit) or "ornery" (more when I was a kid). It's just incredibly frustrating, it feels like every doc I've ever brought it up to basically just dismisses me, taking about how rare adult ADHD actually is.
...this post was just basically supposed to say "yeah I feel that"... So yeah
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