Given:
You lack the capacity to experience imposter syndrome.
Canopyflyer
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Just finished Adrian Tchaikovsky's "Service Model". It was excellent. But be warned, if you're looking for military, adventure sci fi with snarky AI's this will not be your cup of tea. The author takes on modern societal issues in the setting of post collapse human society. Yes, I'm aware of the dichotomy there.
If you do want snarky AI's and adventure, then I recommend the following series:
"Backyard Starship" series. I think it's up to book 17 so far and the quality of the books have stayed pretty consistent. The prequel series "The Peacemaker Wars" is also pretty good.
"Expeditionary Force" The quality does NOT stay consistent in this series and quite frankly, it's not very well written. However, it's like Lofthouse cookies, a lot of mediocre ingredients come together to make something great. I am a die hard fan of the series and highly recommend it if you want something that just removes you from reality for a while.
I was getting ready to leave my girlfriend's apartment. We had gone out for a walk and ended up having dinner. It wasn't a formal date or anything, we had been together, officially, for nearly 6 months by that point.
We hugged and just kept hugging. Not petting or getting frisky, just holding each other and enjoying each other's company for the final few moments of the evening.
It just came out, I said "I love you."
She tensed and was silent for what felt forever. Long enough to start thinking I just either ended our relationship, or caused serious damage.
Just when I was about to disengage from her, she relaxed looked up and gave me a very very nice kiss and said; "I love you too."
At the time I lived nearly 20 miles away from her and I do not remember the drive at all.
That was 21 years ago. We have two teenage boys now and happier now than we were back then.
In case someone wonders why I didn't stay with her that night, it was a weeknight. We both had work the next day and she had an earlier morning than usual. The following weekend we spent the whole time together.
54m here who is neurodivergent.
Yes, I can have a conversation with a stranger, but that was not always the case. It took years of practice to get to the point where I could be in a group or one on one and actually contribute.
The issue is, it takes SO much out of me. Where the people I'm interacting with have nice processing centers in their brains doing the bulk of the work for them in carrying the conversation. The processing centers that deal with social interaction are inactive in my brain and I have to actually think about everything going on. Which is a lot of energy to spend on conversations that really have no actual merit, other than just being social.
Think of it this way, do you remember how much energy you had to expend thinking on the last difficult test you took at school? That's how I feel after social interactions. Because I have to do virtually the same amount of thinking in that setting, that most people use on a Physics exam.
Even with my wife and kids, I have to take breaks from them. While the years have given me habits and known behaviors that I don't have to think about with them and keep our relationships healthy. I still have to do a lot of active processing to interact with them.
It sucks, but it is the way I am and always will be.
TIL!
I've lived in Wisconsin since 2006 and did not know that.
Thank you!
Wisconsinite here where the badger is native and the mascot for the University of Wisconsin is the Badger.
This meme is inaccurate.
The American Badger will also remove your kidneys and sell them on the black market as well, to support their meth habit.
As a parent myself, might I suggest using that as her middle name.
When we named our two boys, we chose classic yet timeless names for their first, but did have some fun with their middle names. (and NO, they are not named "Ben" and "Will". My god, I actually know 6 families that have two boys with those names). That way, we got to name them something fun, but they had good classical first names they could go by through out their lives. Our boys were born during the height of what I call the "din" period. Where a lot of babies have names that ended with some derivation of "din", "dyn", "den" or something along those lines.
There is a very good reason why there is an entire subreddit on that other site called "/r/tragideigh".
To me, this is one of the most fully realized female characters in science fiction (at least):
An IT company I worked for many years ago went through a massive growing phase. One of the things that lead to this growth was the hiring of much more competent management, particularly in security and the data center.
Security actually started doing their jobs and started routinely doing network scans. They discovered two servers that were not located in the data center, which was a huge no no. The servers were running two porn websites off the company's internet connection. The guy had been doing it for years and apparently was making many times his company salary from them.
All of these movies my family sits down and watches at least once a year:
Harry Potter series.. All of them.
LoTR/ Hobbit.. All of them.
Paul
Strictly Ballroom
Princess Bride
Music Man 1962 version
Court Jester 1955 with Danny Kaye
In a surprise announcement the German airline Air Lingus announced they are merging with Connie Kalitta's freight line Kalitta Air.
The new passenger/ freight line's new name is:
Connie Lingus
The new airline's tag line? "We go out of our way to lick the competition."
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Another parent on one of my kid's team has a ridiculously huge Cadillac. It's the size of a Suburban. She has one kid and not planning to have more.
She made the mistake of making a backhanded comment about how my wife and I drive older cars to our faces. We have a 2014 Camry LE and a 2015 Lexus ES 300h. (Mine and wife's respectively)
So I asked her what type of contracting work she does. She looked at me with a bewildered expression. I went on and said; "well you drive a big work truck, I assumed you did construction or something."
The look she gave me could have melted steel.
Just to be clear, I have a great deal of respect for the trades. She however is married to money, not terribly bright, and looks down her nose at just about everyone. So I knew that would hit a nerve with her.