Adramis

joined 1 year ago
[–] Adramis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Across three different organizations, I’ve watched five members of IT fired for their arrogance. If you’re interested in doing this, simply hire an attorney, bring the smart person into the room with the arrogant idiot, and make it clear that someone in that room is not going to work for the organization in two weeks, and then explain the situation.

I don't understand this. What happens when you do that?

[–] Adramis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago

+1 for Bitwarden, wife and I use it and it works well. It lets you securely share passwords for free.

[–] Adramis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

College students that think they’re being bullied most likely attribute normal behavior to bullying

This. The specific problem my alma mater ran into was all the conservative students saying they were getting bullied, and when asked how they were bullied, the response was basically "People disagreed with me and now they don't want to hang out with me!"

Sometimes I wonder if they'd actually been bullied, if their tune would've been different...

[–] Adramis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago

Your meme made me happy. Checkmate atheists

[–] Adramis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 10 months ago (1 children)

That looks both fun and painful AF. Kicks are no joke.

[–] Adramis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I don't know how to deal with it with 99% of people, but between my wife and I we have a system. When someone is talking and the other has a response they want to say to something, they hold up their finger. The speaker then wraps up their thought and gives the other person room to speak. It isn't foolproof but it helps a lot. We both have the problems you're describing otherwise / we still have those problems, but it's better than otherwise.

[–] Adramis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 months ago

Nongshim Kimchi ramen. Shew-ee

[–] Adramis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 10 months ago

I hate the menthol ones, but the ricola herb drops are the shit. Obviously they aren't going to numb you up as hard as the menthol ones, but they feel helpful without being overpower.

[–] Adramis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago

FYI the bottom link is broken (but it's easy enough to get there, lol)

[–] Adramis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

Yeah, I feel like it's heavily skewed towards the beginning of life, but tbf I feel like the cool things you do later in life are harder to quantify? Could add things like:

  • I'm trying to think of how to quantify a "Have 0 debt" option but like, post mortgage or something.
  • Establish a friend group
  • Hang out with at least one member of that friend group for 5 / 10 / 15 years
  • Go to an interesting location as part of your job (conventions count)
  • See a historical human-made artifact in person
  • See a legitimate dinosaur bone in person (not cast)
  • Visit your country's capital
  • Create a piece of art and enter it into something that has it be viewed by people outside your family / friends
[–] Adramis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 months ago (2 children)

hydroponics

Do you have any recommendations for a beginners guide?

[–] Adramis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 months ago

The convenient thing about the LGBTQ+ community though is that we can pop up anywhere, at any time. The perpetual boogieman.

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