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[–] letsgo@lemm.ee 1 points 6 minutes ago

Only the other bots in the farm I inhabit.

[–] OldChicoAle@lemmy.world 5 points 38 minutes ago

I don't know anyone IRL that uses the fediverse. They just use everything else and then complain it's all owned by billionaires

[–] ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org 5 points 54 minutes ago (1 children)
[–] ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org 4 points 53 minutes ago

Sorry, my mirror image got hold of the phone. He's not real, he doesn't count.

[–] vane@lemmy.world 1 points 59 minutes ago

What's real life ?

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 8 points 1 hour ago
[–] pseudo@jlai.lu 4 points 1 hour ago
[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 9 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

Nope, but I have had the thought that small-scale regional meet-ups could be fun.

On the one hand, smaller old-school forums do/did that sometimes and it can be really cool, if thinking in the spirit of the old internet.

ON THE OTHER HAND, I remember the infamous pictures from the Reddit meetup and good God, maybe not?

[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

ON THE OTHER HAND, I remember the infamous pictures from the Reddit meetup and good God, maybe not?

you can't say that and then not link the pictures!

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 6 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

This is the one I was thinking of, but there are several interesting ones. I guess I'm being an asshole, maybe they're all awesome. They certainly seem to be smiling and having fun, so I'm just really the dick here. But here's the picture. Fuck, it is just...a lot. I don't know. NSFW.

spoiler

[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 2 points 29 minutes ago (1 children)

well you have a point, it's certainly weird. they are smiling, ok, but why would you do that which a lot of them are doing

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 1 points 8 minutes ago

I'm really torn. On the one hand, maybe I would be smiling!? I don't know what happened! Part of me thinks, "I'll have some of whatever they're having!"

But then I don't strongly feel, "THOSE are my people!" and I fear I'd be one of those faces nervously smiling(?) in the shadows at the back of the group. Also I have a strong sense of smell and I don't know if I want to roll those dice.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 hours ago

I wouldn't know because I've never mentioned it to anyone.

[–] bruhsoulz@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Sadly no. Ive recommended the fediverse to a couple dudes, one of them is too much of a normie to care (i will lecture him again soon xD) and the other doesnt like the fediverse😐 chose bsky instead of mastodon.. (oh and a third guy just said fuck u and fuck all this stuff alltogether, he was fed up with me complaining ab big tech lmaooo at least he uses matrix to chat w me now)

[–] BowtiesAreCool@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

Me and my friend both switched from Reddit at the same time when the apps died.

[–] ehpolitical@lemmy.ca 12 points 5 hours ago

Not yet, but it seems to be growing.

[–] Alpha71@lemmy.world 11 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

That would require me to actually know someone.

[–] Geodad@lemm.ee 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I envy you. You’ve reached what I desire.

[–] Alpha71@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

It is not it's all it's cracked up to be. Trust me.

[–] Geodad@lemm.ee 1 points 1 hour ago

I’m in a rural area, and the few people I have to see on a daily basis are still too many.

[–] bestbry@lemm.ee 11 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I don’t even know anyone that uses Reddit 🫠

[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I don't even know anyone ~~that uses reddit~~

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 16 points 7 hours ago (1 children)
[–] IndustryStandard@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org 2 points 47 minutes ago* (last edited 45 minutes ago)
# Quick, scrape all his content!  
curl https://lemmy.world/u/Clinicallydepressedpoochie
# Yum, free human-authored training data!  
[–] jeena@piefed.jeena.net 4 points 5 hours ago

I know one guy, but I know him from a IRC (now Matric) channel, but we are offline friends too and visited each other often.

[–] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 14 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

But even for reddit I only know a person in real life that uses it. I tried to convert him, he said "there are too many Linux apologists" 🤷🏻‍♂️

[–] Ziglin@lemmy.world 1 points 48 minutes ago

I know more but they stuck with it for some reason. One friend may be on Lemmy too but I'm not giving them my username …

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 12 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

See? Tankies aren't a problem at all. What're yall worried about?

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 15 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I'm not sure I know anyone in real life

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

They are all robots and NPCs.

[–] baatliwala@lemmy.world 6 points 9 hours ago

That would imply that they know it even exists

[–] passiveaggressivesonar@lemmy.world 10 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Let me stop you before you suggest a narwhal bacons at midnight equivalent for lemmy

[–] TehWorld@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago

YOU SHOULD INSTALL LINUX

My spouse. But that's it.

[–] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 13 points 12 hours ago

Nah. My brother, wife, my two best friends and one co-worker are the only ones who even know it exists, and that's because they know I use it as an alternative to reddit since the API fiasco. It's honestly pretty obscure, but I like it that way. I'd love to see larger niche communities, especially since r/stalker was one of the only places I could actively talk about my favorite game series, but Lemmy has been a far better experience overall.

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