I've recently realized the very real and very understandable boundary that my cat had where he does not wish to be petted (and stimulated, and surprised) while sleeping, even if purring on my lap.

When I started respecting this boundary he started telling me when he wants pet time (by screaming at my face and occasionally, doing a social roll on my lap, which is insanely cute.)

[ Almost Off-topic ] Not gonna lie, I love that our Catalonia domain ( .cat) can be used for all this nice cat related projects.