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We're a group of activists in a Western country where most have been brought up with either "Israel = good, Hamas = bad" or "It's a sad, but unsolvable conflict between two equal sides". The media heavily skewed to the Israeli perspective, and our politicians want to condemn protests in support of Palestinians. Therefore, unless you purposefully seek out information on what's going on in Palestine, you won't really encounter information about the occupation, the apartheid or the human rights violations. There are a lot of gaps in people's information and understanding of the situation.

Atm there's a lot of dehumanization, a lot of "Well, what can you do? Hamas keeps attacking Israel, what are they supposed to do?". I think the Israel=Good is deep-rooted in a lot of westerners. I know it was in me.

We've asked ourselves and each other what finally broke through our previous perception, so we could see the inequality and realize that what's happening is not right

One mentioned seeing a journalist in the back of an ambulance being handed a one-year-old that had passed

One mentioned seeing a video of a caring father saying goodbye to his little girl, kissing her eyes before she was wrapped in the materiale they wrap their dead. The father clearly in denial, smiling and wishing for her to wake up.

A big one for me was being told that it's not an equal fight. It's not two equally strong countries. It's one country with a huge military, and another with barely any. Another was hearing about the human rights violations that's been going on for decades - the fabricated water shortage, the children in Israeli jails.

I believe these are the moments we need to collect and present to those who are still wary on where they stand.

What broke through to you?

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[โ€“] NeedingvsGetting@lemmy.world 28 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

20+ years ago, when I was a freshman in high school, a Palestinian refugee joined our class. He mentioned off-handedly how quiet it was where we lived at night - he was used to hearing rockets/bombs all night while trying to sleep.

Then I started reading.

[โ€“] TheBananaKing@lemmy.world 17 points 11 months ago

I've always stood with Palestine.

I'm genX, so South African apartheid was constantly on the news through my childhood. It doesn't take much to see that Israel is just as shitty.

[โ€“] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 17 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Two things:

  1. two different Israeli tourists told me that Palestinians were animals during the course of different conversations at different times

2).I saw Five Broken Cameras

Those both happened at least a decade ago, and I've been pretty vocal about my condemnation of IDF violence since that point, and it's been insane to have gotten s*** about supporting Palestine for so many years and then in the last few months see a complete reversal of the American perspective.

I've actually had someone reach out to me to ask some clarifying questions now that the hospital bombings and IDF invasions happening for decades are actually being reported on and there's no way to ignore the overwhelming military and cultural advantage israel has in this conflict.

[โ€“] cheesymoonshadow@lemmings.world 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

two different Israeli tourists told me that Palestinians were animals

One of the local businesses I frequent is owned by an Israeli man and he was telling me they all deserve to die, all of them, men, women, and children. He believes the world needs to be rid of all Palestinians.

[โ€“] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 6 points 11 months ago

I had been hanging out all night with a few israelis who were really nice and cool, and they were kind of hippies and were telling me how it was so cool how traveling made them feel so open with other people, and how the world was one, so I was like well but it's kind of difficult with Palestine right?

And immediately one of them said "well not Palestine, Palestinians are animals."

Another one you could tell by her face knew he shouldn't have said that, and explained to me that nothing would ever work out Palestine because they were completely unreasonable and she paraphrased what he said but in less explicit language.

[โ€“] P1r4nha@feddit.de 11 points 11 months ago

I've never really understood people wanting to travel there or even move there as the danger of terrorist attacks seemed to high to risk it (and I travelled quite a bit in the world).

But when I looked into it to resolve my ignorance the apartheid nature seemed very clear to me (I had family in SA) so I was aware of the issue. So since a couple of years ago, maybe even a decade, the politics of Israel were very much against what I deem right and productive.. or ethical.

So superficially I was for Israel (history class in school, Western news reporting, etc.) before I started inform myself.

[โ€“] Witchfire@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I knew about the Free Palestine movement before the war but never knew much about the details. I didn't know what Palestine was, exactly. I knew Hamas was a terrorist organization but couldn't tell you what country they were in.

Then the attacks happened, and I saw a huge disparity among my friends. About half supported Palestine and half supported Israel, so I decided to spend a night researching the history of the conflict. That was an eye opener.

[โ€“] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Used to think Israel action is fair because Hamas been firing rocket in those building, but i'm not sure what and why this one particular incident that somehow started disillusion me. It's the bombing of a high-rise housing Associated Press and Al Jazeera, Israel claimed it's used by Hamas, but never provided any proof afterward.

Then a year later, the murder of journalist Shireen Abu Akleh. Israel blame Palestine but later investigation found out that it's the Israel force that did it.

Then i dig deeper and found out they kill children without reason, and it's a well documented fact.

[โ€“] DarkGamer@kbin.social -1 points 11 months ago

the murder of journalist Shireen Abu Akleh

This was fucked up, worst part is they didn't punish or release the name of the soldier responsible.

[โ€“] ComradeR@lemmy.ml 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Talking with a LGBTQ muslim lady on Facebook 9 years ago. I was an islamophobe/Israel praising person and I had the lucky to find this chill and lovely woman who spent her time talking with me about islamophobia in general and the Palestinian situation as well, despite not being her obligation to do so. Thank you, Maryam for being a teacher for me!

[โ€“] Thisfox@sopuli.xyz 7 points 11 months ago

When it was explained to me 25+ years ago how Israel was invented, and so I did further reading. Religious divides are wrong in every way, and they are prevent neighbourly integration, so I decided I disagree with Israel as a concept, just as I disagree with all apartheid systems. This invasion just solidified my opinion.

And bias in the media? The news here in Oz yesterday covered an orphaned four-year-old being returned to her family just because she was American/Israeli. It left out the many other orphaned four-year-olds dead or dying or lying in pain and fear, without medical attention, because of Israels "action". The ones killed and injured with weapons Israel is lying about using, such as phosphorus. The media are biased as all get out. Poor little kids didn't have a chance.

[โ€“] knfrmity@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 11 months ago

I'm honestly not sure if there was a moment or a thing. Probably just the unending saga of one Israeli atrocity after another. At some point I just realized it wasn't a complicated situation at all. Palestinians are a colonized people, Israel is a colonizing and occupying force. We're talking about decolonization elsewhere, why not when the region in question is Palestine?

[โ€“] frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

The minute it kicked back off. I've always considered Israel to be a standard-bearer of settler-colonialism-- it's why I wasn't able to listen to Borgore after a while-- but I never critically investigated why Hamas needed to exist until I stopped and started comparing how similar Palestine's plight is to what my community has already been through.

Our neighborhoods bombed. Our fathers murdered in the street. Our children funneled from school to prison. The only reason Amerika doesn't look like Israel, doesn't take casualties like Israel, doesn't fight an armed resistance like Israel, is because Amerika either imprisoned, murdered, or both regarding anyone who could have stepped up to lead an armed resistance in my community. The minute that all clicked for me, I couldn't even think about condemning any part of the Palestinian joint coalition; ESPECIALLY not Hamas. Shit, Black and Indigenous folk need a Hamas at this point.

[โ€“] knfrmity@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 11 months ago

That shared experience of oppressed peoples everywhere is really key for me.

As I see right now, the main difference between the USian and Israeli colonial projects is time, and maybe scale.

[โ€“] Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 6 points 11 months ago

Westerner and was never brought up that one side was good or bad but that there was a failure of separation of church and state and this has led to a horrific unsolvable mess. Modern westerners are pretty sensitive to terrorism though and if you are a small religious sect attacking an established nation-state that has been an ally to western nations, yeah you become the greater evil in the eyes of most with a western upbringing. Other than the children, there aren't a whole lot of innocents involved here. It's many shades of grey. For those that have a voice in choosing leaders, I advise to lean against choosing any with strong religious convictions - even if they align with your own. Keep government secular.

[โ€“] charonn0@startrek.website 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

The sheer number of people, organizations, and national institutions that fell over each other in scrambling to support Israel/condemn Hammas set off my bullshit detector.

I'm still not taking sides, but the pro-Israel blitzkrieg is so over the top that I don't accept it at face value. Someone's trying to sell me something.

[โ€“] frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Sitting on the fence is siding with the oppressor; as the settlers taught me when I was little! Wonder why that's suddenly not the case anymore when it's Zionist colonizers getting pushed in.

[โ€“] charonn0@startrek.website 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

This sort of empty, emotionally charged BS is exactly what I'm talking about. It's a weak and childish form of rhetoric, and if that's the best you've got then perhaps you should ask yourself why that is.

[โ€“] frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

See, that was a crackerish statement; and I don't 'debate' settlers-- I condemn them. You're not welcome in my inbox in any way, shape, or form if this is your take; 'cause it sounds to me like you're fence-sitting a genocide. Backing the colonizers. You done snitched on yourself and who you side with.

[โ€“] charonn0@startrek.website 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

We've now reached the name-calling phase. Classic.

[โ€“] frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml 0 points 11 months ago (2 children)

debate pervert

What did I just say, peckerwood? You. Are. Not. Welcome.

[โ€“] charonn0@startrek.website 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 11 months ago

Your ass should've stayed on Reddit.

[โ€“] arirr@lemmy.kde.social 2 points 11 months ago

I've learned a lot more over time, especially recently. I never had a eureka moment though. Everyone deserves to live in peace and with basic human rights. I'll always advocate for that. Specifically this conflict though is between a Democratic state who has done fucked up shit and a genocidal fundmentalist terrorist group. There is still a clearly much less bad side here.

[โ€“] ani@endlesstalk.org 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (4 children)

If you can't do anything to actually help what good will do getting anxious and dread about it? If you can, donate to orgs, volunteer...

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[โ€“] LSNLDN@slrpnk.net 0 points 11 months ago

Try watching Novara Media, very informative and good analysis