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If you truly love your partner, does a ring and a ceremony really do anything?

I know there are certain legal situations where an official marriage changes who has certain rights, but aren't those same rights available if you make other legally-official decisions E.G. a will or trusts, etc?

I'm generally curious why people get married beyond the "because I love them" when it costs so much money.

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[–] win95@lemmy.zip 5 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

My partner and I wanted it for legal reasons, especially since I'm disabled so he can make medical decisions etc.

We can either "register as partners' or get married. Both cost the same. Marriage had a wedding party. Costs a lil bit more, but brought together all of our friends and had a beautiful day. So why choose boring?

[–] uranibaba@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Had a coworker who got married because the paperwork (or rather leak thereof) for the dad when they had kids.

For me it was a way of showing my love, a way of showing that I want to commit long term.

[–] win95@lemmy.zip 1 points 8 hours ago

Yeah, when you're married the husband will automatically be registered as the dad instead of 'having to prove it'.

Our wedding had a double layer: we had the plan in our head for a while. Then my dad passed away and on his deathbed my now husband promised him he would take care of me like how he took care of me. So, it became incredibly emotional (6 months later) as some sort of seal on that promise too.