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[–] vvilld@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Really just the quantity of people, especially on ask subs. Lemmy just feels incredibly empty. And the breadth of topics people discuss here is extremely small.

[–] milicent_bystandr@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

For me it's also the breadth of people there.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 1 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Gift and a curse. Gift when some random person has a hilarious, crazy story. Curse because now it is infected with average people who are extremely materialistic, closed minded, and enchained by limiting self beliefs. So it quickly becomes a cesspool of hate, depression, and crab bucketing.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago

Yup! I don't miss the latter half at all. There's still plenty of stupid walking around Lemmy but it's manageable.

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's the worst thing about Lemmy and all it really does is make me more hesitant to squander potential friends by acting shitty, and less liable to spend hours chatting.

[–] vvilld@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I could go on a sub like NoStupidQuestions or AskElectricans, etc where someone would ask a question about some super obscure topic I happen to be knowledgeable on. I could write a long, in-depth response which would then get dozens of responses and further questions. I'd be engaged in the same conversation about this topic or that for days.

Here, it feels like 99% of conversations are about IT/programming, which is not my field, or about American politics.

Yeah no, it's not the best. But I'd still curl that monkey's paw any day