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Do you (or anyone you know) have a fear (or I guess you can call this a paranoia) that people who are living with you, are snooping on your phones/computers/storage devices/journals/etc? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
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I mean like people like parents/siblings/spouses/significant others/kids/roomates/housemates...

I mean, I have paranoia about other things too (such as germaphobia/mysophobia), but specifically on this issue of people snooping, is amongst one of my top fears, and I'm just curious if other have this similar fear/paranoia.

Like every time I wake up, I wonder if my parents or brother put some malware/spyware on my phone because they think its a funny prank or whatever.

Every time I enter my PIN for my phone, I always cover the screen before entering it in case my parents have cameras in the house. And even more so in public, I'd fear CCTV getting my PIN.

[No, I have not been diagnosed with schizophrenia, I don't hallucinate or anything like that. (But I do have a diagnosis of depression.)]

[This is distinct from the common fears of government surveillance or whatever. That, strangely enough, I fear much less, since I'm just one in hundreds of millions of people that they would care about, so I'm not so worried about that.]

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[–] Kyrgizion@lemmy.world 18 points 6 days ago (2 children)

My SO knows my passwords and I hers. I don't have anything to hide so I never have to panic if she wants my devices (for ordering food etc).

I can see why this is a contentious topic for either paranoids or people who aren't being truthful to their partners.

[–] lurklurk@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

You can want or need privacy without it being nefarious in some way

[–] Kyrgizion@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

Absolutely! I'm 100% for privacy and security where necessary. My point was just that if you have a partner you can trust, it removes the necessity for secrecy which in turn will do wonders for your ease of mind.

[–] sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

You've obviously never had an insecure or abusive or manipulative partner.

[–] Kyrgizion@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

I have, but luckily am not together with them anymore. You deserve better than someone who second guesses your every move.