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Going to be quite scant on details but...

I was out and about, and was messaged by two friends independently saying they were surprised to see me in a YouTube video.

Confused, I asked what they were on about. Turns out, a guy I gave advice to had then started recording me towards the end of our interaction without telling me, and has, weeks later, uploaded it as part of a longer video.

I was pretty tired at the time and doing the guy a favour (out of annoyance), and I don't like a few things, one of those being that he put me online (which, within hours has been viewed hundreds of thousands of times).

What can I do? I have already messaged him to tell him to remove me, but this seems like a ridiculous invasion of privacy.

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[–] Pudutr0n 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

It must have stung real bad back when you believed (or knew) you'd be mocked if you asked for help, at a time when you were in pain or distress. I'm sorry you had (or have) to go through that. It's a shit feeling and nobody should be subjected to it.

Just don't perpetuate the cycle please.

[–] muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee -4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Ur doing an awful lot of projection here. Juat cos ur only way to express your feelings is by taking it out on others doesnt mean thats how everyone thinks.

[–] Pudutr0n 3 points 1 week ago

I might be, but do you feel like my statement was unfair? Do you think it was unwarranted?