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People in their 40s and 50s with no children, how does it feel? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 months ago by SunlitSorceress@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 24 points 2 months ago

Good, made a decision decades ago to have a vasectomy as there are way to many people in the world and misquoting Thoreau, what use a kid if no livable planet to raise them on ?

I always felt if the need to be a parent overwhelmed, I could adopt any number of abandoned kids.

I like kids but I'd fell way to guilty about having any. Not having them also let me retire at 35 and pursue my own interests, I'm now 58.