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Fellow Men, what are some compliments you would like to recieve? (lemmy.world)

submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by ericbomb@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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I want to work on complimenting other men more! Specifically my goal is to compliment people on things they clearly worked hard on or put in effort, cause it sucks if you work super hard or care about something and then don't feel like anyone notices.

So I'm going to try and compliment people who:

Have really well done and unique tattoos

Are older but super athletic (It's harder and more thankless, since when you're young and athletic you're usually in sports and get lots of praise. At least that was my experience)

Have super sharp outfits

Have really nice shoes (nice shoes are expensive and keeping them clean is legit hard)

what are other good compliments we should give each other?

EDIT: Oh and I still remember when I got a compliment on what I was getting while grocery shopping. So if I see like real good food in there I'll try to throw out a "looks like you're cooking up some good stuff"

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[–] Kimdracula@sh.itjust.works -5 points 3 months ago (2 children)

That's the problem. Males usually only do compliments here in sexual interest. Don't deny it. I don't want any of it from a dude. I welcome it from a girl. I'm a male.

[–] meekah@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago

I mean, I'm able to see beauty in men, even though I am not sexually attracted to them. Not sure why that would be a problem. Also male here.

[–] AstralPath@lemmy.ca 0 points 3 months ago

Honestly, based on your comments here I'd say that this is a you problem by proxy; I'd bet that it's your dad that's done you such a disservice raising you that you now reject compliments from 50% of the population of earth. That's a problem for you.

On the sexual side, if you can't see any positive in another man showing you any sort of attention in that way, that's a problem. Its not gay to receive a compliment, man. Just say thanks and move on with your day. EZ PZ.