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How much time have you spent being single?

If you're currently single: is it by choice or circumstance?

Do you / did you enjoy single life?

What are / were the pros and cons?

Is / was partnership a goal of yours?

If you're currently not single: Did your goals change after getting into a relationship?

What are the pros and cons?

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[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 11 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

People don't have to give extremely detailed answers (or any answers) about their experience if they don't want to.

I'm just curious about people's thoughts about being single, how they view it, along with if being in a relationship lived up to their expectations compared to being single.

I'm a believer in human connections and sharing experiences. Curiosity drives my need for answers and different points of view.

My orientation also makes it difficult to parse answers based my own point of view, so I posted to get answers from folks who more than likely have had a much different experience.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Being single sucks. And internet dating is the only viable option, and the experience is a dumpster fire. It's miserable, and I want to give up constantly, until the crippling lonliness rears its ugly head for the umpteenth time.

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Do you have close friends that you're able to spend time with?