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[โ€“] LLovegood@mujico.org 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Well, I (unintentionally) called someone ugly after she removed her mask, there was no second date

[โ€“] AlolanYoda@mander.xyz 25 points 1 year ago (4 children)

How do you do that unintentionally?? Did you just blurt it out? Did she remove the mask and you couldn't hold in an "eugh"? I must know!

[โ€“] LLovegood@mujico.org 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It went something like:

- You had never seen me without it, right?

- No, you look older

(Brief awkward silence)

- I feared you would say that

- (freezes)

Then she told me she is insecure about that, I think she is actually like 3 years older than most of her classmates and some mock her because of that.

I didnโ€™t think she was ugly, to me I was just pointing something out, and only realized I probably insulted her until days later. And Iโ€™m pretty sure I said more stupid things, if you want iโ€˜ll try to remember.

Also, if something reads weird, my native language is not english.

Visibly and audibly throw up in your mouth after she removes the mask.

[โ€“] CmdrShepard@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

Probably something along the lines of "you look better with the mask on!"