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I don't understand... (lemmy.world)

submitted 8 months ago by Voran@lemmy.world to c/general@lemmy.world

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...how on one hand there's a male loneliness epidemic and women are partly to blame because we're so picky - and yet on the other hand things like this.

How can we both be desperately needed for your emotional health but also be huge annoying burdens? I don't get it.

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[–] insomniac_lemon@kbin.social 1 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I would say that to some degree the terminally lonely are not the ones expressing distaste for annoyance (that is likely people who live together and don't have much separation/boundaries).

There also may not be an answer. Two people can have conflicting preferences with neither being wrong.