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I was forced to realise before covid, that my family is dysfunctional and delusional. This obviously extends to family events such as Xmas.
I lost interest many years ago in the whole theatrics of it, it's a capitalist holiday and nothing more. My family touts that "it's about the thought and the people" when in actuality it's always been about the gifts (and by extension, money spent).
With that said, covid caused a pause in a lot of said family relations, and that was the straw that broke the (camel's) back. Most of my family is now rarely in contact, and Xmas as a family event finally bit the dust.
I'm on top of the world, and there's still money in my wallet, as well as less familial bullshit.
So yeah, I'll take it as a win.
I have had great thanksgivings since 2011, with the obvious lonely exception of 2020. Here is my trick
I make a whole bunch of yummy food and invite people to my house that I like spending time with who also live pretty close by.