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[–] Blamemeta@lemm.ee 49 points 1 year ago (14 children)

They happen to align with my values. I was raised Christian, and I only became agnostic in college, so that probably plays into it.

For example, abortion, I think murder is abohherent, baby murder especially so. I don't know when the right to life begins, so I err on the side of caution, at the earliest point, at conception.

Im not anti-lgbtq.

I dont hold contempt for atheism, I dont like /r/atheism

Christian nationalism is weird one because no one seems to know what that actually means. And hell, freedom of religion is one of the most important rights, right next to free speech.

I hope that helps.

[–] enki@lemm.ee 52 points 1 year ago (30 children)

Banning abortion doesn't stop abortion, it just shifts it to a black market where women are far more likely to die.

What does demonstrably reduce abortion to effectively insignificant levels is better sex education and easy access to contraceptives.

Prohibition has never worked. Education always has.

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[–] Alto@kbin.social 37 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Honest question. How do you reconcile your claim about not being anti-lgbt when the GOP is very vocally and openly pushing anti-lgbt messaging and legislation.

[–] Earthwormjim91@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You know that someone can agree with most things in a platform and hate other things about it right?

The fact that they said they’re not anti-lgbt instead of saying they’re pro-lgbt implies that lgbt issues in general are lower on their list of priorities. They may not agree with the anti lgbt stuff but it isn’t important to them anyway.

[–] Alto@kbin.social 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

I'm aware of that first part, but I'm not quite sure how it's possible to make a moral argument that basic human rights shouldn't be towards the very top of your list. The unfortunate reality of the matter is that even in the off chance your local R isn't completely awful, the policies that will be implemented on a national level if they manage to take control of the presidency again are. Voting for an R is a tacit endorsement of those policies.

[–] Earthwormjim91@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They’re a Republican. They don’t view LGBT issues as a human rights issue in the first place. It’s a political issue for them. Hence why they can reconcile that their opinion vs the party platform.

Again, that’s why they said they’re not anti-lgbt rather than saying they’re pro-lgbt.

They can disagree with the Republican Party on LGBT issues, because it’s a political issue for them and not a human rights issue.

[–] wantd2B1ofthestrokes@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Idk man. It just seems like you’re saying “political issue” but what you mean is “doesn’t affect them”.

And I think the whole they’re not “anti” these people they just don’t care enough about them to vote for them to have basic protections is a tough sell. At some point it’s a forced choice, and sitting out isn’t really an option.

I guess maybe it’s how they truly see it, but it doesn’t stand up to much scrutiny.

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[–] NataliePortland@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You know I voted for Hillary and Biden even though both trashed the idea of Medicare For All. That’s a huge issue for me, but you don’t really get to pick your politicians. You only pick the lesser of two evils. Republicans don’t like Dems. They might not love Trump or even Ted Cruz but for some people that’s their lesser of two evils. So I can’t speak for this other commenter but I can understand why you might vote for someone who doesn’t share your values

[–] Alto@kbin.social 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (11 children)

And for plenty of policy points that's not an issue. When we're on the topic of basic human rights, I'm not entirely sure how you* can handwave those abuses away because you want lower taxes.

* generic you

[–] Earthwormjim91@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Many many people believe that healthcare is a basic human right, right up there with LGBT issues.

Putting Medicare for all on the same footing or higher than LGBT issues, because healthcare affects literally everyone.

[–] Alto@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Well yeah, that's because it is. Performing human sacrifices for the profit gods, which is what we are currently doing, is bad.

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[–] Fal@yiffit.net 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

think murder is abohherent, baby murder especially so. I don't know when the right to life begins, so I err on the side of caution

Why stop there? You have no idea, right? So why do you masturbate or use condoms? You're killing millions of potential babies!

If you don't know, you should err on the side of caution for the rights of the people who you do know are real.

Or maybe you should just stay out of it, because as you say, you don't know. Leave it to the scientists and doctors who DO know and who almost universally support abortion access.

[–] FrenLivesMatter@lemmy.today 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why stop there? You have no idea, right? So why do you masturbate or use condoms? You're killing millions of potential babies!

Not the guy you're responding to, but you have a point. Coincidentally, most religions are also against both, so at least you can't accuse them of being inconsistent on the issue of reproduction.

[–] Fal@yiffit.net 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

so at least you can’t accuse them of being inconsistent on the issue of reproduction.

This person I'm responding to isn't religious.

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[–] GiddyGap@lemm.ee 20 points 1 year ago

Thank you for your response.

[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I'm on team "glad you responded" but I still wanna respond to 2 things you said.

First, a lot of anti-abortion people want the abortion conversation to end at "this is murder", but how do you address the bodily autonomy argument? Even if I accept any and all abortions as the full death of a complete person, why are women compelled to donate their bodies to save another person? I don't support forced organ donations to save lives, and by that logic I also do not support forced pregnancies. Any opinion on that perspective?

Christian nationalism isn't complicated in what it is, it is just the desire/push/beliefs from the people that want a nation with an explicitly christian government, a christian theocracy. If it completely took over everything, freedom of religion would be dead, everything would be christian. To try and rephrase it bluntly, Christian nationalism is the desire for and work towards a Christian nation. Some people take it seriously, some people don't, some people outright support it, others deny it even is a real concept.

Edit to add: if you aren't anti-lgbtq, will you call your representatives that you vote for and emphatically tell them so? The difference in opinions between conservatives and their politicians about lgbtq is something I hear from most conservatives I've talked to, but it makes me sad to see they don't really care beyond saying "I'm not anti-lgbtq". If you vote for an anti-lgbtq politician because of other policies they support, please at least tell them you don't agree with their anti-lgbtq stance. It is literally the least amount of help I can think of to ask for.

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[–] Skavau@kbin.social 15 points 1 year ago

Unfortunately, many Republican elected representatives are, to varying degrees, anti-LGBT and do support Christian encroachment into non-religious people's lives.

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Murder of a consciousness is abhorent, but that doesn't really happen. So are you also against pulling the plug on the brain dead?

[–] centof@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Kudos for sharing. Feel free to ignore those who challenge your values. It takes a bunches of mental energy to argue and it isn't necessarily worth it to argue.

With that said, I will still would like to ask you a question, if you are up for it.

How did you form your values?

I only ask because it is easy, when you are raised as Christian, to uncritically accept the teaching, values, and views of those around you as your own.

As kids we are conditioned through school, parents, and in general just information asymmetry to accept what adults say as fact and not question it. It is easy to carry that same tendency over into our values and viewpoints. Kids and adults have a hard time separating fact from opinion. We tend to treat widely held beliefs as fact instead of as the opinions they actually are.

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[–] Venat0r@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Why do you consider conception as the earliest point? What about at arousal? 😜

https://youtu.be/fUspLVStPbk

Christian nationalism is just the merging of Christian and American identity. “America is a Christian nation”. You hear similar often from pandering and or deranged Republicans

[–] NataliePortland@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago

Right on. I don’t share your values but I’m glad to see you here participating and sharing.

[–] Ataraxia@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

Being a fetus doesn't excuse a foreign body's presence inside of mine. I do not intend to be pregnant and if my partner's sperm invades my body when I do not want it I will take every step to eliminate it or the process that follows it. A fetus isn't important. If anything forcing someone to exist is the utmost violation of bodily autonomy. As they say, just because something is natural doesn't make it good.