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What has been the biggest surprise about getting older? (lemmy.world)

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[-] AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world 15 points 11 months ago

It's kind of a privilege to have time or energy for things like that. I'm a single parent of abused children with significant mental health issues, and was a victim myself. Any time I find is spent maintaining my house or crying into my pillow. If my oldest manages to become a functional adult, maybe I'll eke out some scraps of energy.

[-] TheDoctorDonna@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

I hope you do. It's hard to parent through trauma, especially when you have to maintain a job as well. I'm sure you are a great parent though and your kids have their best chance at being functional adults because of you. Stay strong❤️

this post was submitted on 13 Oct 2023

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