But isn’t the asphyxiation here on the levels of, you end up falling asleep and don’t wake up again. It’s not to the degree of you’re choking to death and can’t do anything about it.

Well, you can use Mastadon with a kbin username so there’s that. I don’t think you can with Lemmy.

Honestly, looking at active users over the last 24 hours I’d say kbin is growing faster than lemmy.

Do you live in the states? I’ve never really been to a city where public restroom access is well advertised or even convenient. You’re expected to go inside places of business.