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Female-to-male rape, (how) does it happen without roofies? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] throwawaysalami@lemm.ee 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Rape can also happen between consenting people as well. In fact, quite a lot of what is and should be considered sexual assault/rape, is a partner “going too far” or doing something their consenting partner didn’t consent to.

Say one partner (A) did something to partner (B) which B did not consent to initially. B says this to partner A afterwards to which she replies "Sorry, but I was really close." But she sort of promised to not do it again. What would you make of that?

Female-to-male rape, (how) does it happen without roofies? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] throwawaysalami@lemm.ee 18 points 10 months ago

I knew this post wouldn't be a very "positive" one. But man that's messed up. I think I understand now.

Female-to-male rape, (how) does it happen without roofies? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] throwawaysalami@lemm.ee 2 points 10 months ago

So you mean like a woman beats (or like really harasses) a man and in order to keep her at ease he relents? (English is not my first language)

I'm going to a dance party for the first time. I'm scared of becoming a fly on the wall. What can/should I do if this happens? **Edit: It was a ton of fun. Thank you all for submitting your thoughts** in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

[–] throwawaysalami@lemm.ee 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Thank you for your advice! The dance party was a ton of fun and I danced with lots of different people!

Just remember that standing around and not talking to anyone is as much a choice as going up to someone and asking for a dance.

This one in particular really stuck with me. And I was surprised how much truth there was to this line ^^