Yeah, I think I'd also like the greater customization of some of the "purer" distros, but I'm in no rush. Slow progress is progress.
Haven't tried wine yet, but the world-buildy type games I've tried on linux get about 1/4 the frame-rate for similar graphical settings. The internet doesn't seem to expect that kind of drop, so I think it's largely resolvable, just need to get the time and mental energy to tackle it.
No fear of the command line, maybe I'll do irreparable damage, but I'm not super concerned about it. As far as I can tell you just type sudo apt install x, then google "linux command line task description" when that fails. Maybe I'll work out the logic behind hyphens and underscores and whether a program is available through apt install of if I need snap, but it still feels easier than windows. I really hate looking for tiles/ figuring out which hyperlink to click, typing commands is a dream come true.
Love the man command, but it's a challenge for me to get and retain pertinent information when there's so much to know.
Thanks for the kindness and advice, much appreciated.
Unfortunately the friend is virtual, and I feel like we're not nearly close enough for me to ask them (an IT professional) to remote into my pc. Not that I'm concerned, but I don't like asking people to work on their off hours.
Take a backup? That involves a state of mind where needing a backup is a possibility.
3hrs later--Google search: how to back up Zorin, putting toothpaste in tubes. I mean they've done it once, how hard could it possibly be to do twice.
I did, to my minimal credit, do the modern nvidia drivers install, but the performance was pretty bad so I manually installed another driver, which looks to be the correct and latest, but now I can't install alternative nvidia drivers - attempting to do so gets an error message about being unable to delete a file that is already in the repository or some such. I'll c and v if I can't stumble through it in the hopes I don't have to reinstall, but honestly I don't have a lot of stuff to replace so few tears will be shed. Just got to figure out how to reinstall should it got that route.
Going to see if I have secure boot on, maybe that's the issue.
Thanks for the advice!