[-] shiroininja@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

I like the stretch skinny jeans at old navy. They’re the perfect match of worn in feeling without looking worn in.

I must say I am male, if that makes a difference

[-] shiroininja@lemmy.world 17 points 4 weeks ago

That’s gotta be so demoralizing Lmao

[-] shiroininja@lemmy.world 6 points 4 weeks ago

As a completely normal male: leggings around the house, and skinny jeans with a little stretch. And a hoodie. I hate loose pants and sweatpants.

And I’ve been wearing the same style low top Nike skateboarding shoes for a decade. I’ve bought them multiple times

[-] shiroininja@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Download it, have it forever. distribute. I wish projects like this wouldn't use static websites for distribution, it's what makes them an easy target. I hate static rom sites for a lot of reasons, but this is the main one.

[-] shiroininja@lemmy.world 17 points 1 month ago

When you spread outright lies about someone what sparks violence, it's a bit different, right? Or are you on the side of the woman who lied about Emmet Till and got him killed? Because if it was known she lied about the thing at the time, I'd say she should have been jailed the same as his killers.

[-] shiroininja@lemmy.world 54 points 1 month ago

This is the best shit ever

[-] shiroininja@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I feel no disrespect. Having become a parent, I understand why people don’t want to be one. It taught me more empathy and is why I’ve doubled down on abortion rights since becoming a parent. It’s scary, it’s super difficult, and I understand people’s decision. I can’t imagine being a single woman, alone, pregnant. And watching my ex wife struggle with birth to ultimately have an emergency C section opened my eyes to why women don’t want to go through that. They inflate a balloon in you!

[-] shiroininja@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

They've gotten worse. I became a parent, and that's stressful. and Stress makes my sensory issues worse. and Kids are a sensory nightmare.

[-] shiroininja@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Memmy is my favorite. cute name. Memmy for Lemmy

[-] shiroininja@lemmy.world 47 points 1 month ago

Her Morrowind high elf cosplay is impeccable though

[-] shiroininja@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

I’m nostalgic for Ubuntu when it still had Unity as default, and Linux mint around 2014. That’s when I began coding, and that’s the time I liked the look of them more than the current modern offerings. Plus there was more ease of customization it felt like

[-] shiroininja@lemmy.world 14 points 3 months ago

I’m totally joining this tonight. Between this and programming.dev I can finally leave generic Lemmy.world

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Some background:

I am a 35 year old male with a 2 year old son. I was diagnosed this year after a lifetime of struggling and becoming a parent exacerbating my traits.

Today I had an appointment with my son’s speech therapist, because he’s still not talking more than a couple words. The appointment is unstructured play and interaction including mimicking him, waiting for his cues, etc. The problem is, I can’t pick up on communication cues or read what to do next. I can’t communicate with him like a normal parent and I feel like I’m holding him back.

The therapist had to guide me as much as she had to guide him. This was my first time meeting her, and it was all overwhelming and overstimulating. I was fighting back tears half the time and I couldn’t keep and make eye contact as well as my 2 year old. 😭

I feel like my kid is going to be stunted because of my issues. I’m newly divorced and I’m doing my best so my wife doesn’t take him from because “I care for him, but can’t care for him.”

I struggle without routines and children are chaos. I am excluded by other parents because I’m weird or different, and they keep their kids away from us when playing at the park. I want him to be able to socialize and have friends and his autistic monster father gets in the way.

Everything is always so overwhelming and I struggle to not have panic attacks. How am I supposed to help when he gets to school? I have trouble with numbers and can’t do math😭😭

I just feel like giving up. I don’t know what to do

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I don’t know if I’m more scared of having autism or not having if.

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