sharon

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[–] sharon@lemmy.world 20 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (5 children)

Ironically, this would enable those with genetic conditions to more safely have kids. I'd argue the problem with Gattaca was that the one man who wasn't genetically perfect was discriminated against, not that everyone else was genetically perfect.

The problem with this is that it sounds like they haven't proven that it works.

(Sorry for the edits, accidentally pressed post before I was done.)

[–] sharon@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

Oh, glad to hear it!

[–] sharon@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

Woman here. (Sorry, don't typically announce my gender, but relevant to the comment if someone else reads it.)

Tbh I wish the conversation were more positive. I ain't no expert cuz I'm struggling with my own advice, but I'd recommend: Try to get a decent job, work on your mental health, take care of yourself, build friendships, try to get in a decent place financially, and maintain a healthy schedule, environment, and diet. Be the kind of person you'd want to date. And treat women like men for the most part. Most people I know in relationships met at work, school, church, dating apps, or through friends / common interests.

But the reason I'm not on the dating market myself is cuz I'm a mess of a human being who doesn't want to be trapped in a codependent relationship. Dating doesn't sound appealing at all when I have so many problems I need to work through first. I've seen what happens when people try to fix their problems with relationships; it usually results in more problems.

Best of luck. Sorry things are rough.