[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 8 months ago

There is something my therapist pointed out to me, who was feeling like fraud about being trans. There is some peer pressure out there on how you have to be to be trans. We are not talking about mean peer pressure, but if you see that bodily transitioning is the way for apparently every trans person, then that must be the way for you too, right? And what if you really dread procedures or meds? Or if you are maybe not super happy with your body, but who ever is? Does that make you less trans? I think it really helps to think of trans as a spectrum and exploring it slowly. And maybe you find your gender identity on that spectrum or you feel role playing etc. is just some good fun. And if you find yourself on that spectrum you can go into character creation and say, I’m fine with the presets or change things up, the result will always be beautifully you.

[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 8 months ago

Gender and trans are a spectrum, so maybe your wandering in that plain is your gender identity? Nonbinary, genderfluid and pangender are labels that took me the longest time to grasp, but are what I’m comfortable now with. And also the aspect, that wether you bodily transition or not does not decide wether you wanna use the label trans for you or not. It’s free and one way or the other it’s great to open up that binary system.

[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 9 months ago

Gay buff gigachad healer would be great. Still remembering that male design for Mercy from Overwatch. Hot damn… 🤩

[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 9 months ago

I second this and wanna add, that it’s also totally cool, to feel like switching into a different body whenever would be neat. Maybe being whomever you want to be whenever feels just right to you.

This is also attainable with outfits though honestly your appearance is completely secondary to how you personally feel about being your self.

Shapeshifters are just awesome characters anyway right?

[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 9 months ago

Looks comfy 🥰

[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 9 months ago

Whoa!! Now I get even more chills watching LotR. Knowing IRL Galadriel supporting the quest for queerness. 🥰

[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 9 months ago

As an enby with a beard, this is now the look I want for next Christmas. xD It looks incredibly good to me!

[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 9 months ago

did you mean: Tinnitus Prime

[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 9 months ago

But what about the droid attack on the Wookiees?

[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 9 months ago

Don’t know if that is still holding up, but the German ministry of defence put terrorist attacks on the same list as natural disasters in their „Weißbuch“ around 2016. So theoretically we could have, what for historical reason we should never see again: The military enforcing inland. And while in Bavaria climate crisis protesters are held in detention under anti terror law, the picture discussed here could become reality in Germany faster than we might think.

[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 months ago

My rig inside my sturdy ncase M1 has been serving me well for 5 years. It features a full size GPU (gotta precisely check the size) and water cooling. Also two 2,5 inch drives SSD/ HDD and an M2 stick. 16 GB RAM Intel i5 on an Asus MB. Also it has 2 big and one small fan. Never had any overheating issues.

It fits into a large backpack. Also goes well in a suitcase. Going by car, PC, monitor plus peripherals fit into a collapsible crate.

Tbh it has not traveled as much, since even though it is portable, it’s annoying to unplug everything. It sits on my desk, which is nice for removing the cables. Also for height-adjustable desks.

[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago

Maybe the joke was, they are the ones that seems closest to the homo species but are still apes?

Though I think there are other apes that are genetically closer to homo sapiens.

This showerthought looked queerphobic to me before I came to the conclusion about its possible meaning. It’s still seems - maybe unconsciously - insensitive to me.

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