[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Based. Top4top is the most genuine and violent form of love.

[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

If i have a crush on any of my friends then i just sleep with them. My gf and i are ENM, and we talk about our friend crushes openly. But the truth is, I've got more of a desire to have friends who i don't have any sexual tension with recently. I've gotten a bit sad with people wanting more of my attention when i don't have any left to give. My gf and i meet each other's needs for physical intimacy pretty well. I mostly just want more masc bros to do bro stuff with.

[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 40 points 10 months ago

She thinks it's hot

[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 35 points 10 months ago

I like calling my trans gf a trap ๐Ÿ˜Œ

[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago

The only reason antibiotic resistant germs are different than regular germs is that antibiotics don't work on them, which doesn't matter if you don't use antibiotics! ๐Ÿ˜†

Her reasons are more vague and appeal-to-nature-y. But you do raise a good point.

[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 12 points 10 months ago

It's a precious gift. I look for the others who care too much and then hold them close ๐Ÿฅน

[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 26 points 10 months ago

Relatable. I love a girl like this. It's exhausting and it's slowly impacted my own sanity, but it's not her fault. It's mainly about germs with her. She gets really upset if we don't wash our hands every 15 minutes or so. But at the same time, she's afraid of antibiotics.

[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 18 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

The strongest indicator that shoes will work for you, according to the research is... Do they feel good? I'd suggest going to a running store and trying on different brands and jogging around the store. Once you find a comfy pair, you probably chose well.

[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 12 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

That was my immediate thought. This is obviously the output of an LLM.

Prompt: "list the ways the 1% (or the most affluent and powerful segment of society) is actively preventing true ownership of the things we buy"

[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 105 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

All the people saying "yes" are incorrect. Running on pavement and running on trails exert different strains on the body, but not less. The tendency in road runners is to end up with tibial stress fractures, and in trail runners it is metatarsal stress fractures, but the injury rates are similar. Trail running requires stronger stabilizer muscles (primarily gluteus medius) to maintain knee health in the long term, but this is a problem for both as well.

Use good shoes, strength train your gluteus medius and calves, do most of your miles at an easy pace, and you'll be running for decades, regardless of your chosen surface. You might even change it up and do both!

(My credentials are that i am an ultramarathoner and have run half a dozen races between 26.2 and 50 miles, on pavement and trail, and i have been coached by a professional ultra runner for several seasons.)

[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 24 points 10 months ago

This is ultimately a big part of it, and it's universal, not just in dating. Most friendships are "friendships of convenience" and the other types of relationships typically progress from there. But in western culture, we don't have any third places, and so we just plain don't make friendships of convenience anymore.

[-] girltwink@lemmy.world 32 points 10 months ago

I've found several long term relationships off tinder as a WLW. It seems to work pretty well for me. The system doesn't seem to be working for guys, and that's unfortunate. But a lot of the pressure on women to settle for any man has gone away as women have become more self reliant. The whole thing has become far more consensual and less mandatory for survival. That's going to influence men's dating success no matter what medium people use to find matches.

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