Thanks, I'll try this on for size soon! I'm currently in the middle of moving houses and got covid, so safe to say server stuff is on hold for a while. Might need to move wireguard and some other things to a VPS as my housemate has the internet plan here, unless she's fine with me swapping in my router again.
Safe to say everything may be seeing a rebuild soon, with room to improve!
I'm in the same boat, I've been playing Death Stranding and a few other indie games once every weekend or two... or three. Now every one of my friends and coworkers are talking about hundreds of hours in BG3, I've bought and downloaded it last night to catch up.
The genre itself appeals to me, but the amount of time and concentration it takes me to get into a game nowadays, maybe this gets a kick start.