[-] TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 6 points 3 months ago
[-] TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 12 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Knock nock

Edit: I just realised I'm dumb, you're the one who knocks so let's assume you did

Who's there ?

[-] TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 11 points 3 months ago

Yeah well good luck writing hello world in html by punching holes in cardboard

[-] TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

New discord pfp

[-] TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 6 points 6 months ago

CON NICHON AAAAAH

[-] TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

Yes exactly, well put.

[-] TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 5 points 6 months ago

I would not go as far as saying it's subjective, there are official definitions like the who's :

https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/mental-disorders

But yes it depends on the context and the period so it's not entirely objective either.

[-] TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 6 points 6 months ago

How is that arbitrary ? Harmful => disorder is not that hard to grasp imo.

Anyway I'm not the one that makes that decision :

https://www.msdmanuals.com/professional/psychiatric-disorders/paraphilias-and-paraphilic-disorders/pedophilic-disorder

[-] TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 6 points 6 months ago

That's where we shall agree to disagree. We should not discriminate against those who seek help, yes, but if they are not willing to, they should not be near children.

[-] TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 6 points 6 months ago

I would ask you to take a step back and ask yourself if you are being completely rational about this issue.

I mean I kinda would like you to do the same, because you keep misunderstanding me, and it looks more and more like you're doing it on purpose. Wth are you going on about "preemptive capital punishment" ?I said we need to empathize with them, never talked about punishment, never said we should not treat them as human.

I said we should not treat them as "another minority" because it's a mental disorder, unlike homosexuality... When I said they should try not being pedophiles anymore, what I meant was they should seek help for fighting their urges because it should never be accepted, as you should not accept psychopaths until they are under treatment. They are both disorders and should be treated as such. Saying they face similar issues is not helping, because those issues are for completely different reasons. Some are legitimate, other aren't.

[-] TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 9 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Pedophilia itself does not harm anyone but the one having to deal with it. Representing pedophiles as a threat to society judges many for the actions of a few. The individuals did not do anything wrong, and they do not deserve rejection for what they are.

Until they do... It's not because they never acted on it that they will never. And I'm pretty sure that if you start to accept pedophilia as "just another minority", pedophiles all around the world will feel more legitimate and act on it more because hey it's normal now.

PLUS if you merge them to LGBTQ for instance, it allows more hate towards LGBTQ because people fear (for a good reason) pedophilia. It already is their main argument, with grooming etc. It's always the children.

As far as I know “just not being a pedophile” is not possible for an actual pedophile? The only result you’ll get with that is that people hide in a closet, without getting the help that they could use. The simple fact that I don’t know that there is a treatment that actually cures pedophilia.

There are actual treatments (for reducing libido for instance, like antiandrogens, selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors), group therapies, etc. that seems to help :

Here are some interesting resources on the subject

I agree that I'm a little confused about how it should be approached, because it should be a initiative from the pedophiles and not mandated, but I still think it should be done for every pedophiles.

As a parent, pedophilia is a real concern, and you merging it with homosexuality just make me really angry.

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