Because I have my own custom domain internally and don't use tailscale while on I'm on my network physically. But I get the best of both worlds, however I do have Tailscale setup with DNsMasq to set to my domain name anyway instead of using the Tailscale domain

Tailscale with reverse proxy, nothing publicly exposed

Do you mind explaining further in what way hasn't he noticed ? Does he not use reddit or ?

This reminds me of Blackberry

They will slowly fade and become an archive

This! if I see people ask for alternatives I will recommend them, but I'm currently not going out of my way to force it down anyone's throat.