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If not I understand (startrek.website)

submitted 11 months ago by Stamets@startrek.website to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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[-] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 57 points 11 months ago

I now think you're hotter

Being vulnerable is hot

[-] Stamets@startrek.website 53 points 11 months ago

[-] ivanafterall@kbin.social 9 points 11 months ago

It's a trap!

[-] Fixbeat@lemmy.ml 8 points 11 months ago

Depends on how much crazy they release in the process of being vulnerable.

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 35 points 11 months ago

Being vulnerable was the end of a lot of my relationships.

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 13 points 11 months ago

Don't date selfish bastards, then

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 25 points 11 months ago

It's not like they go around with labels on their shirts. Really I don't even think it was a conscious choice for them. Some women just lose their attraction when they see dudes show weakness.

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 6 points 11 months ago

That type of person is very easy to spot, dude.

[-] HappyFrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 11 months ago

What's with the victim blaming?

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 11 months ago

Oh, please. These types of girls stand out a mile away. You're not a victim, you're just horny for insta-thots.

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 13 points 11 months ago

It's not like they broke up with me on the spot. They even were supportive about what was bothering me. The problem is their physical attraction went way down/disappeared entirely afterwards.