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You literally can just long press the normal hyphen on the iOS keyboard, probably similar in Android


So, you saw an em dash in a sentence and immediately screamed “AI!”? Hold up. That long, dramatic line — yeah, that one — has been around way before ChatGPT slid into your DMs. Writers have been using em dashes for centuries to spice things up, create vibes, and break the rules in the coolest way possible.

Here’s the tea: the em dash is a tool, not a tell. Just because an AI uses it doesn’t mean it’s some secret signature. You know who else uses em dashes? Literally every author who’s ever wanted to sound clever, casual, or just a little chaotic.

So next time you spot an em dash, don’t panic. It’s punctuation, not a personality test.

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[–] Damarcusart@hexbear.net 2 points 10 hours ago

It's not that it isn't automatically an indicator of AI generation, rather — it is used frequently by AI in a way that doesn't follow the natural flow of human conversation.

If you'd like to know more, I'm here to help!

[–] twice_hatch@midwest.social 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Guamer@hexbear.net 15 points 18 hours ago

The anti-ai hysteria on the site is getting a little silly, and I'm by no means an ai advocate.

[–] Carl@hexbear.net 17 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

real writers use the hyphen - like this - instead because they can't be bothered to type an actual em dash and they've long since disabled any form of auto correct on any program they type into.

[–] Nacarbac@hexbear.net 6 points 16 hours ago

Yeah, the differing use-cases for the various dashes just seems like an anachronism that's already basically faded away. Like the use of double-spaces, which is just an old typewriter thing... or QWERTY itself, but that's a pain to overcome.

[–] dave@feddit.uk 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

real writers use the hyphen - like this - instead because they can't be bothered to type an actual em dash

I think you defined lazy writers, not real writers.

[–] Carl@hexbear.net 3 points 13 hours ago

lazy is real, at least until they train the ais to intentionally not capitalize letters and stuff like that

[–] roux@hexbear.net 16 points 20 hours ago

My autistic ass taking notes on how not to sound like AI when I write shit.

[–] T34_69@hexbear.net 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Alt 0151. I use it often and have instructed students on the difference between a semicolon, a period, and an em dash and when it's best to use each of them. It helps me write how I speak. I guess eventually someone's going to accuse me of using ChatGPT because of my em dashes and idk, they can kiss my ass?

[–] dave@feddit.uk 3 points 16 hours ago

I hope you include use of the en-dash too. I use them 2–3 times a week.

[–] mendiCAN@hexbear.net 29 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

it'd be a funny bit if op used ai to write this

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 21 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

Everything under the line was chat gpt, everything above was chat gp me

[–] mendiCAN@hexbear.net 17 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

lol i stumbled into the truth like inspector closeau!

[–] cypherpunks@lemmy.ml 3 points 12 hours ago

i was 90% sure 😭

[–] Lamprey@hexbear.net 12 points 22 hours ago

I swear he did

[–] miz@hexbear.net 26 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (2 children)

as a frequent user of the em dash I find this whole AI tell thing distressing

[–] AstroStelar@hexbear.net 41 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Edie@hexbear.net 19 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

As an infrequent user of it, same.
I got a bit angry yesterday, when someone said (in the thread this is a continuation of): no human being uses em-dash.
Saying only AI uses these is dehumanizing.
I guess that I am autistic plays a role in me finding it really bad.

[–] gay_king_prince_charles@hexbear.net 14 points 21 hours ago (4 children)

Funny how it used to be a shibboleth for lawyers and now it's a tell for AI. Em dashes are very useful punctuation marks though — being able to chain sentences together for longer than intended is very helpful for writing without thinking — what I do — or just being generally chaotic in writing.

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 11 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

just being generally chaotic in writing

ADHD thoughts within thoughts. Instead of using two layers of parentheses, substituting one for dashes.

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 5 points 19 hours ago

and then you want to close it with a smiley (or is it emoticon (I never really used that term even back in the day ... and today everyone just calls them emojis :))) and it looks like a triple chin

[–] buckykat@hexbear.net 4 points 17 hours ago

I just abuse commas

[–] allthetimesivedied@hexbear.net 9 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I love using colons in a rare sort of way: like this. Like, the colon is followed by something that builds upon the first part, or some sort of comment on it or whatever: I love writing like one of those famous old authors whose writing styles are fucking weird. Like the author of Trainspotting: I’d be a great writer if I could write something meatier than a Mastodon post.

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 6 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I also love reading oldish writing, like pre-20th century where the rules were far looser.

We take it for granted, but mathematics also used to be quite loosey-goosey until it was formalized by David Hilbert in the 1920s. Dude was an absolute legend, I mean just look at him:

[–] allthetimesivedied@hexbear.net 1 points 7 hours ago

I was always really bad at math, because of the way it was taught to me and idk how to explain further.

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 10 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Lawyers 🤝 English majors

[–] allthetimesivedied@hexbear.net 8 points 20 hours ago

—Objection!

[–] joaomarrom@hexbear.net 14 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Fun fact, the em dash is also the standard punctuation for dialogues in books written in Portuguese, like:

"How are you?"

"Not very well," she answered.

— Como você está?

— Não muito bem — respondeu ela.

[–] Damarcusart@hexbear.net 3 points 10 hours ago

Sorry to have to tell you this, but Portugal was created by AI.

[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 10 points 22 hours ago

The quotation dash is also used in a number of other languages, I mainly see it in Norwegian-language news articles. You'll also find it in some older English-language works like Ulysses.

[–] Dessa@hexbear.net 16 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Finally ⸻ the 3-em dash will have its moment

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 7 points 22 hours ago
[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 9 points 21 hours ago

Em persecution has to end

mccrucified

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This sounds like something an AI would write

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago
[–] allthetimesivedied@hexbear.net 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I use those a lot—though without spaces. The spaces give it away .

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 6 points 20 hours ago

I've been using the em dash a lot — decades! — due to influence from reading a lot of classics from the 1800s when I was a child, and I do it with the spaces around it for visibility, readability, and clarity. The spaces don't give anything away.

[–] CarbonScored@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (10 children)

I don't care - stop using long dashes. It's a useless character and the less you use it the easier it is to discern AI slop without even having to think. It'll only be a year or two before ChatGPT stops using it, so don't undermine a very cool and assuredly temporary useful discernment tool.

A normal length dash does everything you want. You know why nobody knows em-dash existed before? Because nobody ever noticed you using it and everyone reads it as a normal dash.

You can have your em-dash back in a couple years.

[–] ChestRockwell@hexbear.net 7 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

In high school, an English teacher once told us she over used em dashes and her teacher told her you can't just dash through your papers. I tried to avoid their over use after that, which made me learn the other ways to organize my (chaotic) thoughts.

Needless to say, I think that it's a tell of young writers more than AI. The overuse is because the author isn't comfortable with using colons, parenthesis, or commas - the things that the em dash can substitute for grammatically.

A good writer understands offsetting with a dash adds more emphasis than commas (neutral) or parenthesis (lower emphasis). Overuse is a sign of either immaturity or AI. Since there's a lot of immature writers on the internet (and have been since the eternal summer began), it really isn't useful as a tell online.

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