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So. What Am I getting banned?

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[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 8 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Imagine this, but with email.

[–] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 1 hour ago

This meme could have been an email!

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 2 points 1 hour ago

That doesn't make sense. Iirc, lemmy.world doesn't host any of your content or manages your account, it simply just displays it.

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 37 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (2 children)

This particular thread is hosted on lemmy.world and you must be 18+ to access it.

Nah, admins only care about their own instance. So a LW admin would only care about underage LW users.

Admins don't have the time to moderate for other instances. I'm already busy enough with dbzer0, lemm.ee's business is theirs. (as long as they're not posting CSAM or scams)

edit: I should mention that you still have to follow the COCs of instances, but most of them can be boiled down to: Don't be a huge dick, and don't be racist/anything-phobic.

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

And despite how simple it is people still find new and interesting ways to be bigoted. It’s impressive really

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 1 points 38 minutes ago

As long as all those people getting banned were actually for those reasons...

Most of the time admins and mods just ban you because they don't like you even though that's not a rule.

[–] sag@lemm.ee 11 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

lemm.ee allow 16+ year old users.

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

Should be fine, then. You're on .ee not .world, they're not going to vet your account for age ;)

edit: I should mention that you still have to follow the COCs of instances, but most of them can be boiled down to: Don't be a huge dick, and don't be racist/anything-phobic.

[–] sag@lemm.ee 11 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Don't be a huge dick, and don't be racist/anything-phobic.

I leaved Reddit because of this. And I choose Lemmy over other Social Media app to ignore this. I can safely say I am not. I don't even joke about it like some edgy teenager thinking saying N-Word is fucking cool or saying Hitler was a good person and everyone should do it too. Or Hating LGBTQ person.

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 3 hours ago

You're a cool poster

[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 17 points 3 hours ago

Why is Kit on instance X gatekeeping a user in instance Y from accessing a community on instance Z?

Gives me vibes of old man yelling at kids to stop having fun.

[–] m_f@discuss.online 64 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Not really sure how that works with federation. You're not "using" lemmy.world, you're using lemm.ee, which has a copy of content from lemmy.world.

[–] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 1 hour ago

I think you've pretty much nailed it. KFC can't ban you from buying a Burguer King that McDonalds is secondhand selling.

[–] Skunk@jlai.lu 38 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Bans are for adults, you gets sent to your room.

[–] jared@mander.xyz 10 points 4 hours ago

After you take out the trash.

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 42 points 5 hours ago (3 children)

No one under 18 years of age or under the regulated minimum age defined by your local law (whichever is higher), is allowed to use or access the website.

https://legal.lemmy.world/tos/#introduction

Curious choice

[–] skullgiver@popplesburger.hilciferous.nl 36 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Dealing with data protection laws surrounding children is a MASSIVE pain. Most Lemmy servers ignore the GDPR safely, but ignoring COPPA is a bit harder. And that doesn't even take into account the recent rise of laws blocking teenagers from social media, with varying ages and consent laws.

[–] Maalus@lemmy.world 15 points 4 hours ago

"safely" as in are too small for the regulatory bodies to care. Takes one report though.

[–] empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com 24 points 5 hours ago

It's legal boilerplate.

[–] mmddmm@lemm.ee 13 points 5 hours ago

There's probably some law that require it.

[–] End0fLine@midwest.social 26 points 5 hours ago (7 children)

I’m too old for this to matter, but is somebody really expected check the ToS of the server the community they’re posting in is on, or is this just a CYA kind of thing?

Federation makes this untenable.

Yeah just ignore and move on. They probably just put that there so they dont get sued for making porn available to minors without warning or something.

[–] skullgiver@popplesburger.hilciferous.nl 11 points 4 hours ago (11 children)

Yes, unless you accept the risk of being banned. Every community and every server has its own set of rules.

You can usually safely ignore these rules, but if you get banned you don't have a leg to stand on if you didn't bother with reading the rules.

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[–] empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

is somebody really expected check the ToS of the server the community they’re posting in is on,

Technically yes. Practically nobody does.

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[–] BackwardsUntoDawn@lemm.ee 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

is this like traveling to another country where the drinking age is lower

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 3 points 1 hour ago

No, it's like a 19 year old being on a conference call with Americans having a beer and Americans telling him he can't because in America the law is 21

[–] MHLoppy@fedia.io 8 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I seem to be missing some context - anyone want to fill in the rest of the class?

Edit: the image being shown to ~~lemmy users~~ everybody else is not being shown to ~~mbin users~~ ~~me and/or fedia.io users (unclear)~~ some unknown subsection of mbin users including me, so here it is for those like me: https://imgur.com/q4zuZzz

[–] TimeSquirrel@kbin.melroy.org 9 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Must be your instance. I can see it fine from kbin.melroy.org, which also uses the mbin software.

[–] MHLoppy@fedia.io 7 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

Well, now that's just discrimination :(

Weird though!

Edit: it also doesn't show for kbin.earth (which is running mbin) - I'm curious what the source of the problem is for this strange and seemingly-arbitrary minority of users https://kbin.earth/m/fediverse@lemmy.world/t/1028068/So-after-using-Lemmy-for-1-5-Years-You-are-telling

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

why do mbin links always break on lemmy?

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[–] Palladiumasteroid@piefed.social 4 points 4 hours ago

If an admin put limitations to who can or can't belong and/or interact with their server, it's their responsibility to whitelist and blacklist accordingly.

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