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[–] Grimy@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The Great Gig in The Sky by Pink Floyd.

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[–] tiefling@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago

Blurred Lines

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] Skua@kbin.earth 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

If you're in Scotland when you do this people will sing along with you

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

then I could use the renunciation, a wobbly song to the same tune

[–] Skua@kbin.earth 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I remember the first time my then-girlfriend, who was American, heard God Save the Queen while here in the UK. It was an instrumental version and she had no idea why they were playing My Country 'tis of Thee in a situation where you would expect a national anthem

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[–] ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Bullet by Hollywood undead

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Hollywood undead is my go to energy music when I can't think of anything else. :::

[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

Live - Lightning Crashes

People would get into it, but it would definitely kill the vibes before then.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 days ago

Somebody that i used to know

[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 10 points 2 days ago

I repeat the last song.

Or anything from an obscure screamo band.

[–] Albbi@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 days ago

Goodbye my Lover by James Blunt would work to kill a hyped up mood.

[–] KammicRelief@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Weird Al.

Or Eminem.

Or Weird Al's Eminem parody.

[–] Klordok@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I'm pretty sure I've seen this at a dueling piano bar. The crowd was into it.

[–] gedaliyah@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (3 children)
[–] SomeAmateur@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

But if you sing it three times agent 47 will appear

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago
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[–] Evoliddaw@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago
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[–] RowRowRowYourBot@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

"Loving You" as Im a guy who cannot sing and absolutely does not have Minnie Ripperton's range. It would be horrific and I would lean into it with all my might.

https://youtu.be/9I3UTG1dSTc

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 days ago

Isn't that just karaoke?

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] tenchiken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 days ago

Dead puppies

[–] zaphodb2002@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The Smallest Church in Saint-Saëns

[–] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

I WOULD OFTEN GO THERE

TO THE TINY CHURCH THERE

[–] brap@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

It might be a singalong in Canada where it was a part of the popular compilation Big Shiny Tunes 3, which was 8x platinum.

Assuming the audience is old enough 🙂.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 days ago

We Are the World which might be fine if everyone in the bar was fifty-plus, but wouldn't work today.

[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 5 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Alice’s restaurant- Arlo Guthrie

[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago

I worked with a 17 year old once who knew the entire lyrics to Alice's Restaurant and would recite them, not sing them, in the most deadpan voice.

I miss that guy.

[–] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 6 points 2 days ago

If that kills the vibe, you got the wrong crowd.

[–] badhops@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Bad Manners - Special Brew Singing to my wife

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[–] RobotToaster@mander.xyz 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Woman Is The N***** Of The World

(Although anything by John Lennon would probably work lol)

[–] Letstakealook@lemm.ee 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Wtf? I have never liked the Beatles, I find most of their catalog grating to listen to, and most of their lyrics either nonsense or fart sniffing. This one, though it's a Lennon and Yoko, has to be the pinnacle of sniffing their own farts.

[–] RobotToaster@mander.xyz 2 points 1 day ago

Yeah, even ignoring the obvious issue with the lyrics, it's a dog shit song.

[–] mercano@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

“Memories” from Cats

[–] iii@mander.xyz 3 points 2 days ago

The ISIS song

the cure - killing an arab

[–] dariusj18@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Summer loving

[–] Scary_le_Poo@beehaw.org 1 points 1 day ago
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