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I try to join about 5 minutes before because I'm terrified of being the first person or the last.

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[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 2 points 1 month ago

if im invited then right on time if I host then one minute early, maybe 2. usually. sometimes I have meetings that end 3mins to the next or go over which impact my ability to get to the meeting on time.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Usually at least an hour early to get a good seat.

[–] Norin@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

It depends.

I’m one of the few people still teaching on Zoom. Turns out it’s a good delivery method for some students at community colleges (like if you have young children at home, etc.)

If I’m teaching, I show up 15 minutes early.

If I’m just a participant, I show up pretty much right on time, then I quietly judge whoever is running the meeting because most calls are run poorly.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago

Three minutes before. No more. No less.

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

All my meetings are internal (i.e. not customer facing). I join 15-30 seconds after start time. That's enough for other people to join in and I don't have to do the awkward small talk with the host while waiting for others. If I'm hosting, I start the meeting 2 minutes early.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 month ago

Maybe ten seconds before of after the start time. Depends if I was working on something or forgot about it. If the meeting starts at 8am, then whenever I get to the office a few minutes after 8am (don’t schedule meetings first thing if you want me to be there when they start). If it was on one of my wfh days, that’d be different.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

Ha. Bold of you to assume I have some sort of control over these things.
If I join at all, i join whenever the stars align and it occurs to me as something needing to happen.

That being said, I usually intend to join just a couple minutes early.

[–] Evotech@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

In teams you can see how many are already in.

If in hiding in try to be the first though, but not too early because people get a notification that the meeting has started. And might go on earlier than required

[–] Caboose12000@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I like joining 5+ mins early so I can just sit in silence and work while waiting for the meeting to start rather than stressing about needing to lock at the clock (j have adhd and tend to hyperfocus). plus I dont mind a little small talk, but even so no one else on my team seems to want to smalltalk so even if someone else joins early it's pretty quiet

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago

5 min early. If you're not 5 min early, you're late.

Honestly, usually it's 4-5 min early: I'll pop in and noodle about prepping whatever, documenting something or just staring out the window a sec to clear my head. I'm usually very satisfied I'm not late by normie standards because being on-time shows a modicum of respect to others. If it's a shit meeting, that's an exception. I have one where I'm noticeably barely-on-time, and everyone points it out.

I'd encourage meetings to lock at the start time if I could, so late joiners wait in the lobby until someone opens the door, and then we'll know whom to heckle.

[–] QuarterSwede@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I’ve got so many meetings that I just join whenever it’s started by someone and go about my work until the meeting starts. If I’m not the target audience I’ll go off camera and listen if needed.

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