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[–] collapse_already@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

They don't even meow to each other, just to humans. They know what they are about.

[–] teije9@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 minutes ago

they do sometimes do really low meows to intimidate other cats

[–] Tlaloc_Temporal@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

No, they do sometimes. Some meow in greeting to each other, as seen on cat cams.

[–] brlemworld@lemmy.world 9 points 3 hours ago (3 children)

I keep meowing at hot guys at the bar and none have taken me home yet 😭

[–] frayedpickles@lemmy.cafe 1 points 46 minutes ago

Did you try letting them scratch under your collar?

[–] Siegfried@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

Meow at the moderately acceptably good (minus minus) looking and you may have some luck... but please don't get offended if we start pspspspsing you, it's just a reflex

[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 hours ago

Works better on girls.

[–] Bamboodpanda@lemmy.world 12 points 3 hours ago

The cat that walked into my house and said "I live here meow."

[–] hakunawazo@lemmy.world 9 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

"Everybody wants to talk about X, nobody wants to talk about Y".
That's not gaslighting, that's whataboutism.

[–] Raab@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I think it's more along the lines of cats gaslighting humans to care for them....that's where I grew the comparison.

[–] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

That isn't what gaslighting is, though. Gaslighting isn't simply emotional manipulation; it's a specific kind.

[–] Raab@lemmy.world 0 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

You mean like manipulating humans into believing they are helpless animals that need to be brought in, and taken care of?

The specific kind of psychological manipulation in this case used by cats over millennia, by definition of the word, is gaslighting lol

[–] frayedpickles@lemmy.cafe 2 points 42 minutes ago* (last edited 41 minutes ago) (1 children)

Thankfully it's the year 2024 so if you literally spent 5 seconds doing a search you would find a real definition

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation that hinges on creating self-doubt. “I think of gaslighting as trying to associate someone with the label ‘crazy,’” says Paige Sweet, Ph.D., an assistant professor of sociology at the University of Michigan who studies gaslighting in relationships and in the workplace. “It’s making someone seem or feel unstable, irrational and not credible, making them feel like what they’re seeing or experiencing isn’t real, that they’re making it up, that no one else will believe them.”

Cats cannot do this.

I don't want to be the person that brings a real definition into a fun thread, but your complete lack of logical, sane thought on the subject drove me to it. This is your fault.

[–] Raab@lemmy.world 0 points 14 minutes ago (1 children)

Did you even read your quote? A subjective stance from an assistant professor of sociology who studies gaslighting IN RELATIONSHIPS AND THE WORKPLACE. That's a severe lack of a "real definition" my guy. Go watch the 1944 film Gaslight from which the term was coined.

[–] frayedpickles@lemmy.cafe 2 points 10 minutes ago* (last edited 9 minutes ago)

Webster

psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typically leads to confusion, loss of confidence and self-esteem, uncertainty of one's emotional or mental stability, and a dependency on the perpetrator

Can you spot the difference? I cannot. And cats still can't do this.

Also, it was coined in a play before that.

Again, it's 2024, this is easy shit.

[–] Zerush@lemmy.ml 16 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)
[–] Obi@sopuli.xyz 1 points 51 minutes ago

Once they figure out email and posting on social media we're really screwed.

[–] therealjcdenton@lemmy.zip -1 points 3 hours ago

Can't relate

[–] dumbass@leminal.space 15 points 10 hours ago (8 children)

I went to disagree untill I remembered there's a ginger cat that lives on my property that I feed sometimes

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[–] K9life@lemmy.world 27 points 12 hours ago

Lost opportunity to say "I live here meow"

[–] sumguyonline@lemmy.world -5 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

The whole world is lit by gaslight. Gaslight people into buying gas cars, gaslight people into overpaying for a house by hundreds of thousands of dollars, gaslight you into a kamala vs trump fake fight. First world women gas lighting that they are real people, not literal walking talking personality disorders that the created themselves. At least the cats give affection.

[–] frayedpickles@lemmy.cafe 2 points 44 minutes ago

Have you considered trying out therapy? It takes some time to find a good person, and there's a lot of wooo people out there, but some are good.

[–] Cronization@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

Sir, this is a Wendy's.

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