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[–] hakunawazo@lemmy.world 9 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

"Everybody wants to talk about X, nobody wants to talk about Y".
That's not gaslighting, that's whataboutism.

[–] Raab@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I think it's more along the lines of cats gaslighting humans to care for them....that's where I grew the comparison.

[–] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

That isn't what gaslighting is, though. Gaslighting isn't simply emotional manipulation; it's a specific kind.

[–] Raab@lemmy.world 1 points 55 minutes ago (1 children)

You mean like manipulating humans into believing they are helpless animals that need to be brought in, and taken care of?

The specific kind of psychological manipulation in this case used by cats over millennia, by definition of the word, is gaslighting lol

[–] frayedpickles@lemmy.cafe 1 points 32 minutes ago* (last edited 31 minutes ago) (1 children)

Thankfully it's the year 2024 so if you literally spent 5 seconds doing a search you would find a real definition

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation that hinges on creating self-doubt. “I think of gaslighting as trying to associate someone with the label ‘crazy,’” says Paige Sweet, Ph.D., an assistant professor of sociology at the University of Michigan who studies gaslighting in relationships and in the workplace. “It’s making someone seem or feel unstable, irrational and not credible, making them feel like what they’re seeing or experiencing isn’t real, that they’re making it up, that no one else will believe them.”

Cats cannot do this.

I don't want to be the person that brings a real definition into a fun thread, but your complete lack of logical, sane thought on the subject drove me to it. This is your fault.

[–] Raab@lemmy.world 1 points 4 minutes ago

Did you even read your quote? A subjective stance from an assistant professor of sociology who studies gaslighting IN RELATIONSHIPS AND THE WORKPLACE. That's a severe lack of a "real definition" my guy. Go watch the 1944 film Gaslight from which the term was coined.