this post was submitted on 11 Dec 2024
33 points (100.0% liked)

Asklemmy

44143 readers
1028 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy ๐Ÿ”

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

  1. Open-ended question
  2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
  3. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
  4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
  5. An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
 

My grandparents practically don't leave their home anymore. So the next time I visit them, I would like to show them something they have not experienced or seen before.

I thought of taking them on a trip to different places using Google Earth (or something similar). I just want to go a little more interactive than just showing them videos or pictures.

I am limited to my laptop (and their TV + maybe a Chromecast).

Do you have any interesting internet things or places you would show your grandparents?

top 7 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[โ€“] redhorsejacket@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

First, I think it would be to your benefit to investigate whether this project of yours was even interesting to your grandparents. Youve shared your interpretation of the situation (they are practically homebound and may be missing out on some experience with the wider world), and it seems reasonable, but it does not account for their perspective. They may not be missing anything about the wider world. Or, maybe they are missing some aspect of it, but don't view "digital tourism" as a valid substitute. Most likely though, they're just pleased their grandchild is visiting and want to focus on that, rather than the TV or computer.

As an illustrative example, imagine an introvert and extrovert coworkers. The extrovert discovers the introvert has no weekend plans, and assumes that they must be lonely or sad. They, with the noblest of intentions, try to cajole their colleague into going out on Friday night. The introvert, who has been looking forward to finally being able to settle into their latest novel, is upset that the extrovert is projecting a void onto their lives that they don't see as a void at all.

I'm not saying that that is what's occurring here, and obviously you know your grandparents better than strangers on the internet, but I do think it's a possibility that should be investigated before you commit to any plan.

[โ€“] Gold_E_Lox@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

great run-down!

[โ€“] 200ok@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

This is a great reminder about perspective for so many things.

Some people who are married and/or have children can't imagine how unmarried and/or people without children could possibly have chosen that lifestyle and be happy or content. And vice versa, of course.

I'm sure there are plenty of other examples. Your point about extroverted coworkers hit close to home since that recently happened to me.

[โ€“] Mothra@mander.xyz 13 points 1 week ago

I think this depends a lot on the grandparents personality and mental state. If I had to do this with mine, I would pick places they have a personal connection to. For example, where they were born, the place their school is or used to be, somewhere memorable they visited during their honeymoon, you get the idea. Seeing stuff like that evolve through time is more interesting imo than just visiting, say, Paris or Tokyo virtually.

[โ€“] jared@mander.xyz 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't know if any of the Google cardboard vr stuff works anymore but there where plenty of tours for different sights and areas.

[โ€“] trustnoone@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 week ago

I showed my dad this and he loved it, he's from Italy so traversing the Italian art was just amazing. And the thing literally only cost a few dollars.

[โ€“] 1rre@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 week ago

if you're British, maps.nls.uk is fascinating for seeing places evolve over time