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Basically one in which you can't be public about it due to whatever reasons - has to stay a secret. No need to go into detail if you don't want to. I myself have been in this situation for ~15 years now.

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[โ€“] trucy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 34 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Homosexual relationships are often like that.

[โ€“] Fisch@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 1 month ago

I would also imagine that relationships between a cis and a trans person are often like that, unfortunately

[โ€“] Qkall@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 month ago

I was kinda hanging out with a homies older sister ... We kept that super low out of respect for him... Or did we both not want others to know? Dunno...

[โ€“] j4k3@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

First gf. Grew up Jehovah's Witness, loved a lovely girl in highschool with everything I had. Another later was never mentioned to family. The cult like nonsense of biased prejudice is quite disgusting in that group.