How do I go about this? I have tried 11ty, Hugo, WordPress, and simple HTML templates.
I feel like neither of these are the right tool. They are either very complicated, full of features, or they create badly looking web pages.
11ty, Hugo and Jekyll all seem nice and more like what I need, but they are focused towards blogging which does not fit my use case. The templates that look good that I found didn’t work and had minimal or no instructions at all about how to get them to work.
What is clear to me is that I have a huge front end shaped gap in my competence that I should work on. Please do not bash me over this.
Now that you understand my situation; What tool or template would you recommend that I use?
Imagine if someone wanted to develop a simple web game or something, but they didn't have backend experience. They're asking what tool they should use. They say they tried nginx, apache, and caddy, they messed around with PHP and node, but they're very complicated, full of features, and they create malfunctioning web pages.
What tool or template would you recommend that they use?
I'm not saying this to bash you, just gently telling you that you are using the correct tools, and I suspect that you're unfamiliar with being a beginner at something web-related, so you're assuming that the tool is the issue if it doesn't work exactly the way you want it right away. The issue is just that you haven't learned your way around yet.
Wordpress is probably your easiest option. Pay for one of the paid themes that looks nice and fits exactly with what you'd like to do, and customize it. Hugo, Bootstrap or something similar may better suit how you want your workflow to be, although they'll be a little bit less professional.
If you have a Hugo theme in mind that looks nice, I'd be happy to take a crack at getting it working, I've worked with Hugo before.