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Supportive dad (lemy.lol)
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[-] Draegur@lemm.ee 9 points 11 hours ago

Sis was basically built with a clit to begin with, will barely need any aftermarket mods to match female spec.

[-] cordlesslamp@lemmy.today 24 points 1 day ago

Has anyone noticed there's little to non micropenis pornography?

[-] RaoulDook@lemmy.world 13 points 16 hours ago

I saw a penis size chart recently, it showed the overall avg size versus porn actor sizes.

Overall people's average size was around 5.5" and average porn actor size was about 7" and there were very few porn actors with less than 6"

So porn is generally skewing people's perception of size if that's what they see more than in-person dongs. (haha in person)

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 8 points 15 hours ago

The median would be interesting. Just in case there's one guy out there stocking a 12 footer.

[-] TriflingToad@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

googled it, 12 inches is max but it's unusable. Guy refuses to make it useable because he wants to keep the record. Fair enough.

[-] kemsat@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

I remember a podcast talking about the biggest being 13.”

[-] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 8 points 20 hours ago

I would have to actually look for that.

So it’s kinda hard to notice what you aren’t looking for.

But you do you, no kink shaming.

[-] Entropywins@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

^ loves micropenises!!!

[-] huf@hexbear.net 2 points 19 hours ago

best the internet can do is chastity stuff

Fake: OP is Trans

Gay: OP is very gay

[-] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 73 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

A big reason that drove me was that I have a micropenis.

Fake. There are no "reasons to drive someone" other than their internal gender, this sounds like something ~~a cis person~~ someone who thinks being trans is a choice would say.

Edit: For clarity, I'm not speculating on whether or not the OP in the post is trans or cis, I'm saying it doesn't sound like a real story because it sounds inauthentic to the trans experience. A trans person could easily think this up, like anyone can make up a story that is close to their experiences, but since it isn't real it doesn't really pass scrutiny.

[-] DempstersBox@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

Yeah, this seems like the 'joke' is that only guys with tiny dicks would want to transition.

Which has nothing to do with it

[-] match@pawb.social 19 points 13 hours ago

two of my trans women friends, when getting their sperm frozen before starting hormones, found out they just have XX chromosomes and never had working sperm in the first place

i think we underestimate how many intersex people there are

[-] Ragnarok314159@sopuli.xyz 1 points 6 hours ago

It’s time to just replace the old questionnaires with Skyrim type character creator slide rules.

“Please define yourself. If you take more than an hour you fail no matter what.”

[-] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Yup. My belief is that we are likely to eventually combine the categories of transgender and differences in sexual development (formerly known as intersex) as we discover more about it's biological origins. The vast majority of people have never been karyotyped and have no idea what their chromosomes are.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 14 points 17 hours ago

Idk 4chan has a notoriously toxic and strange trans community. Giving “reasons” is exactly the sort of thing I’d expect of them

[-] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 16 hours ago

That's a good point. I haven't browsed 4chan since way before they had any LGBT community/rep visible on it, I don't know what kind of convoluted views they have. Let me guess, some of them unironcally identify as "agp" don't they?

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 7 points 15 hours ago

There’s a whole lot of blanchardianism (agp vs hsts). Quite a bit of homophobia, it’s actually a lot straighter than you’d probably expect. A lot of how they act is surprisingly old school, like back in the day when you weren’t allowed to transition unless therapists thought you couldn’t live a normal life as your assigned sex old school. And all this with the characteristic 4chan edgy bs. Also they’re anti supportive, like full on terf forum level of critical of trans people’s appearance.

I haven’t been but I’ve learned to pick up the signs by seeing the shit trans people who come from 4chan say.

[-] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 15 hours ago

Good to know, thank you for the info. That's really sad.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago

Yeah I think there’s just something about 4chan that encourages a sort of emotional automasochistic culture. I think it’s partly that the culture pushes away the healthy, but it also drives those capable of health away from it in favor of “uncomfortable truths”. I forget what Natalie Wynn called it, but it’s the philosophy of “it is true because it hurts”. And it happens all across the website. It’s the thing that ties the Nazis, the trolls, the incels, and the self hating trans people together, and it’s antithetical to happiness.

[-] Draegur@lemm.ee 3 points 10 hours ago

Holy shit I never heard of it put into words but jesus fucking christ does that CLICK. I'm no longer there myself but there was certainly a time when I felt in a similar way:

The truth is painful,
Therefore the more that it hurts,
The more true it is.

This rhetorical position is insidious, deranged, toxic, and most importantly: blatantly incorrect and false. Holding this belief is a diagnostic flag of fundamental cognitive stack malfunction. Suspend all non-critical executive processes and seek therapy.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 4 points 10 hours ago

So I just remembered the term she used was masochistic epistemology. It was in this video about incels.

But yeah it’s such an easy trap to fall into when you’re already unhappy. And yeah it’s a form of accepting defeat because trying is hard and the possibility of failure is scary. Sometimes the truth hurts, and if you’re generally miserable the truth you need is likely uncomfortable, but that discomfort could be anything from “you need to get your shit together” to “your expectations are unrealistic” to “you’re surrounding yourself with people and things that make you miserable because it’s easier to accept unhappiness than to change”

Incels for example think they need to accept that they’re just ugly and unable to ever be seen as attractive and thus are destined to be miserable forever, when in reality they often need to accept that getting laid won’t make them happy and their misery is part of why they can’t get laid. They need to find a happy life in which sex would be a nice plus and then be clean, groomed, and enjoyable to be around.

[-] 0laura@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

i have spent and still spend lots of time in these places and yes, they do. they desperately want to be hsts and hate themselves for being agp and not being trutrans enough. lots of reppers too (trans people that know they're trans but repress it out of self hatred). there's lots of lore

[-] june@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 15 hours ago

That's really sad. It would also explain how she is relating her micropenis, via shame and self-hatred, to being trans.

[-] Ptsf@lemmy.world 62 points 1 day ago

That's such reddit logic. You assume everyone has a perfect understanding of themselves, but people have a lot of different things internally that drive them and they're not always aware of it. When I was young I was interested in other men, and frankly, quite disgusted by it. It's the habitat I was raised in and if you'd asked me back then, I'd have told you it was because I was a sinner. The real reason as I came to discover was indeed that I'm just gay. It took a lot of steps and discovery to get there. I'm not saying this is real, I'm just pointing out that just because your logic is correct does not mean that this person if they are real has made enough discoveries about themselves to be strictly logical.

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[-] somtwo@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Wait, are you saying people would lie on 4chan???

But seriously, yeah, people don't seem to realize that people tend to want to pick the path of least resistance. If someone really is trans I have to believe it's because who they are is so at odds with the expectations of society.

Edit: added a qualification because I am not trans

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[-] Floey@lemm.ee 22 points 1 day ago

Your internal gender didn't just fall out of a coconut tree.

[-] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago

This very well may be fake, but it's also entirely possible to identify as trans for any number of reasons. You might say such a person is "not really" trans but, supposing that is true, there's no contradiction between that and some person who doesn't have such ideological convictions having a thought process like you see in this image and acting on it.

That said, I agree that it's probably fake, though I'm not as confident that the poster is a cis impersonator.

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[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 75 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Did the dad never change any diapers?

Micropenis is almost always evident from birth. Always afaik, but I'm leaving room for edge cases I've never heard of.

So you'd have to be a pretty hands off dad not to see it, even if it somehow wasn't noticed or reported to the parents by the doctors involved.

Edit: also, obviously fake and gay, forgot where I was for a second and was pretending it was real for discussion/entertainment sake.

[-] Default_Defect@midwest.social 56 points 1 day ago

I can't imagine most first time parents innately know what a baby's penis is supposed to look like, is it really that obvious?

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 day ago

Yeah, it's pretty obvious.

It tends to happen the most with other atypicalities, but even when it doesn't, it just doesn't look right. Humans have certain proportions, ratios, and we can usually tell when someone is off by a fairly small margin. Genitals are no different in that regard.

You might not immediately think "micropenis", but you'd be able to tell things weren't normative.

Now, it might be pretty easy to shove that aside and assume it would grow later on, and they do. They just don't grow to normative proportions, they stay micro, just not the same size as they start.

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[-] BastingChemina@slrpnk.net 9 points 1 day ago

A study from the 80s showed that around 45% of fathers NEVER changed a diaper.

Things changed today but I would not be surprised if the dad never changed a diaper.

[-] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 2 points 7 hours ago

39 year old dad here. Being proud of not changing diapers was my dad's generation for sure. I've certainly changed plenty, and I can't think of any peers who haven't.

[-] IMongoose@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago

I don't think it was that uncommon for a boomer dad to never change a diaper. One of my friends dad was bragging about it and my own dad was a little surprised to see me change one. Luxury of a single income supporting a middle class family of 4 I guess.

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[-] Mac@mander.xyz 44 points 1 day ago

Bummer. If only there was more to relationships than penetrative sex. :/

[-] MataVatnik@lemmy.world 25 points 1 day ago

I have a thick 7" meat hammer I need a different excuse

[-] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 43 points 1 day ago

Dad I'm sorry I look too cute in skirts

[-] MataVatnik@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Perf, "skirts are the only way I can let my massive dick breathe"

[-] Agent641@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Like that song by Cake, it goes "I like a girl with a short skirt and a long penis"

[-] Mango@lemmy.world 4 points 20 hours ago
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