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[–] fsk@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Those charities have huge overhead. Very little money goes to the actual cause.

[–] someguy3@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

There are sites to check how much actually goes out. Check before you donate.

[–] MegaUltraChicken@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My favorite one is when our utility company asks me to donate to help pay for people's utilities like they aren't raking in record amount of cash.

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[–] MobileSuitBagera@lemmy.fmhy.ml 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Remember kids, they also get to use the money they guilted off of you to reduce their tax liability because they get credit for donating your money!

[–] PerfectParanoia@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This is not true. I am not from the US or a lawyer but these donations sould show up on your receipt and count as your direct donation to the charity. The store is just a middleman and does not get any benefit. Here is a random, semi recent article about it you can find a lot more if you look it up online.

[–] mighty_alfredo@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They do not, at least in the US.

[–] axtualdave@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

It depends on exactly what the store is doing.

If the store is representing the extra charge as a donation to a specific charity, generally, the customer can deduct that.

If it's far more vague, like, "Give $10 to help poor kids in Africa" the ultimate destination for the funds could be the company's own ledgers, which it would then use for its own charitable activities and collect the tax deduction, as long as they "help poor kids in Africa."

And some stores are just lying. CVS, for instance, was sued as part of a class action suit when, after the company pledges $10 million to the American Diabetes Association, then collected money from customers to fund that pledge.

[–] zombuey@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Just FYI this is a sort of scam. The company donates the money on your behalf and they get the tax write-off for your donation while also appearing philanthropic for PR purposes. that's why they do it.> e fair, I bet these companies strike deals with the charitable organizations to in turn raise visibility of those charities among the company’s customers. Furthermore there is no contractual obligation they actually donate that money or how. They could just be lying to you.

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[–] AltF4me@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Shell's audacity too...

[–] malloc@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

People that give money for those charities are giving those companies free tax write offs.

You donate $10 or whatever. The company can then claim that $10 as a write off via donation to that charity. Campaign as a whole (either regional or national) collects $1M USD. Corporate accountants write off donation. Tax liability reduced.

[–] stankmut@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

That's not how tax write offs work. The only way to claim that money in a write-off would be for the business to also claim it as revenue. That would even out, with no tax savings. Businesses also don't handle donations that way, they usually serve as a collection agent that just passes your donations on without being able to claim it towards their revenue or their tax write offs. The only person who can write-off their donation is the person who actually made it.

The reason businesses do it is for marketing. They get to put out a press release saying "They helped donate $10 million to puppies without borders."

[–] cod@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

That’s not how tax write offs work

Jerry: So we're gonna make the Post Office pay for my new stereo now?

Kramer: It's a write-off for them.

Jerry: How is it a write-off?

Kramer: They just write it off.

Jerry: Write it off what?

Kramer: Jerry, all these big companies, they write off everything.

Jerry: You don't even know what a write-off is.

Kramer: Do you?

Jerry: No, I don't.

Kramer: But they do. And they're the ones writing it off.

[–] FanciestPants@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Puppies do not recognize your silly imaginary borders and will commit zoomies across any such lines.

[–] LukeMedia@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I intended on writing this comment yesterday but jerboa timed out on me. It's a common misconception and I understand how it gets spread, but I wish there was better knowledge and education of how taxes worked in general. Would make it easier for the average person to spot the ways companies do evade taxes, too.

[–] phx@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

No, that's not how it works. In order to do so, they'd have to first claim the money received as income.

That said, there are scummy things that they do. At the least, it's saying "we [bigcorp] donated $1,000,000 to charity" when in reality all that they did was collect it. In other situations, companies like Sobey's doesn't actually pass on food bank donations as cash, but rather have then as credit to buy products only from Sobey's.

[–] FreeDiverX@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

First, please don't link to Reddit...

Many Of The Largest Charities In America Are Giant Money Making Scams
http://thetruthwins.com/archives/many-of-the-largest-charities-in-america-are-giant-money-making-scams

[–] Spacecraft@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I hate when they pull this shit at drive through fast food. “Would you like to round up to donate to our charity?”

Who knows what the person taking my order thinks about this charity, and what they might do to someone’s food who says no.

Edit: The fact that merely implying a fast food worker wouldn’t be a complete perfect human being gets so many downvotes says a whole lot about this community.

[–] sirkook@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I can assure you that nobody working at the fast food restaurant gives a shit if you donate to charity.

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[–] EmergingDystopia@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah, this really bothers me. Because in reality, that company that you give money to at checkout is just going to bundle that all up and it's a donation in their name, used as a tax write-off. You as the shopper might feel nice and warm and fuzzy, but you're just giving a multimillion or billion dollar company a tax break. Just donate as yourself. If you want to help XYZ cause, do it on your own. My two cents.

[–] mighty_alfredo@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

That's not how it works, at least in the US. You are donating as yourself, and can use the donation as a tax write off if you would like.

[–] KingStrafeIV@midwest.social 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] mighty_alfredo@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Thank you for the link. To be clear to anyone too lazy to click (which you should do to verify anyway) this is a source that confirms that businesses don't get to claim your donation as their own.

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[–] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And I will never ever give these fools my actual phone number for discounts. Just use any area code w/ 867-5309 to get around this.

[–] jackoneill@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Jenny Jenny, who can I turn to? You give me something I can hold on to. I know you think I’m like the others before who saw your name and number on the wall

To be fair, I bet these companies strike deals with the charitable organizations to in turn raise visibility of those charities among the company's customers.

[–] TheDeadGuy@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Bad example, grocery stores usually have small margins and aren't making a lot of money off of you

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[–] toxicbubble@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

PSA: most Americans can get up to $300 deducted from their annual taxes through donations.

[–] mcc@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Then they will say it is more efficient to merge the donations with regular revenue and make bulk donations every quarter or something.

[–] darkknight@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I hate when any company I'm buying something from does this.

[–] demvoter@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I don’t trust them to actually donate anyway. How would you ever find out? I suspect these are scams to hold the money and get interest off it even if they do ultimately donate it.

[–] Slartibartfast@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not sure if this is 100% accurate, but I heard that how it works is they donate the money first, get the tax write-off and then try to hit people up at the checkouts to refund all the money after the fact. That way they get the tax break for donating the money without actually being out of pocket. I don't know what happens if people donate more than the amount they spent, but I think I can take a reasonable guess.

[–] FrickAndMortar@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

I think that’s what CVS got busted doing:

https://www.fastcompany.com/90820744/cvs-asks-for-donations-at-checkout-but-are-customers-being-guilted-into-paying-the-pharmacys-debts

“according to a lawsuit filed by a New Yorker, this money is allegedly being used to repay a $10 million commitment that the pharmacy chain has already made to the ADA, unbeknownst to customers. The suit accuses CVS of engaging in fraud and violating consumer protection laws in all 50 states. In essence, it argues, CVS is guilt-tripping customers in the checkout line to reimburse its own charitable donations.”

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[–] Skellybones@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I just say no

[–] TheDeadGuy@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Bad example, grocery stores usually have small margins and aren't making a lot of money off of you

[–] tomve_cz@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

It's still fine.

Some big international store in europe is asking to buy food from them for full price and donate it to food bank. Fuckin hilarious for making profit on charity.

[–] danielton@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Just wait until you get a tip prompt on a self checkout kiosk...

[–] Licensed_to_ill@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Those donations you make can help them deduct from taxes, right?

[–] Janus67@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I think that's a myth as it isn't income it goes into a separate fund to transfer 1:1.

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[–] neanderthal@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Here me out before accusing me of being a billionaire toady.

Not really, at least not in the US. Charitable contributions are a deduction from taxable income, not a credit, so it is still a net financial loss to donate.

Where the benefit comes is the PR and power over the organization they donate to and its sphere of influence.

[–] git@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

It is a net loss if you donate your own money, in this situation Company isn't donating from it's own revenue. It is donating customers money.

If I donated 1000$ and claimed tax deductible it would be a net loss. But if I asked everyone for donations, raised 1000$, donated that and claimed tax deductible that wouldn't be a net loss.

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[–] phillycodehound@geddit.social 1 points 1 year ago

If I choose to donate I will do it on my own terms thank you very much.

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