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[-] MrMamiya@feddit.de 26 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Lol means a lot of things to us. It’s hard to put into language. A signal we’re kidding, we’re uncomfortable expressing an emotion through text, we’re nervous, we don’t want something taken the wrong way, we’re expressing casual empathy. There’s more to lol than laughing, I’m sure someone has done a study on it by now.

Edit: for some background context, we’re the children of the most successful generation in human history. They were born in a time that had some of the most favorable conditions for success at any point in human development. People paid for college with part time jobs. People bought houses on one wage. People could afford a nice vacation, and had a pension.

Things changed, but our parents didn’t notice. They couldn’t handle failure so they invented participation trophies and then ridiculed us for them when it became convenient. They used their money to make investments in property, drove up rent and prices and then called us lazy for not owning a home yet.

We are a nervous generation. We were told things that aren’t true anymore and then held up against that untrue standard to measure our success in a game that was always rigged. So we say lol.

[-] dmention7@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

"lol" is punctuation. A carryover from a time before we had a thousand different emoji to pick from, and also when casual IM communication was not yet so ingrained our culture that conveying subtle tone came naturally. Lol

[-] Mothra@mander.xyz 4 points 1 year ago

It used to annoy me a bit first, but after a while I realised this. It's true. So I incorporated lols in my conversations with millenials, in moderation of course. Definitely an improvement

[-] fushuan@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

That's my xD, lmao, >:)

Lmao

[-] Holzkohlen@feddit.de 22 points 1 year ago

You add it after trauma dumping to have plausible deniability lol

[-] spiderjuzce@lemmy.sdf.org 13 points 1 year ago

If I can't use lol I'll go back to hehe

[-] GBU_28@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

Hehe reads sexual to my millennial eyes

[-] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago

It's just some extra spice for a sentence, lol.

[-] kimpilled@infosec.pub 7 points 1 year ago

That’s my emotional support lol you will not take it from me

[-] Tigbitties@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago

I used to use "aal" to be edgy. "Actual audible laugh". No one knew what the fuck I was talking about. Yeah, I'm embarrassed about that.

[-] NielsBohron@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

You should be embarrassed, but are you aae, though?

[-] kvothelu@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

i will stop adding lol immediately fr fr. no cap.

[-] Cabrio@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

This meme is straight bussin', on god, fr fr.

[-] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 year ago

Live, Love, LOL

[-] model_tar_gz@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Fuck you I won’t do what you tell me lolol.

[-] KingJalopy@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

I'm Gen X and I do that shit all the time. Lol

You can tell you're a filthy Xer because you don't put lol before your period lol.

[-] KingJalopy@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago
[-] saltesc@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Now it looks like a policeman directing traffic instead of a person drowning lol

[-] SomeBoyo@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago

That's what they get for filling >50℅ of a reply with emojis

[-] BudgetBandit@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago
[-] Loudambiance@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

I feel like I'm being personally attacked, lol.

[-] SilentStorms@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

lol wait this is a millenial thing?

[-] holycrap@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

As soon as you fucks stop adding emojis and gifs all over yours

[-] Dr_Fetus_Jackson@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Looool! I'm Gen X, and do it for the lulz.

[-] Laticauda@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

It's my emotional support mood indicator!

[-] MeDuViNoX@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago
[-] Voli@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

We use lol to honor trolololol

[-] Dwarvy@feddit.nl 0 points 1 year ago
[-] Nepenthe@kbin.social -1 points 1 year ago

Lmao is the only acceptable one. Lol is for everyone's grandparents

[-] Bobert@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Lmao isn't professional when having a work conversation with your boss but lol definitely is, so it's clearly superior lol

[-] Pitri@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

"you're fired!"

"lmao"

[-] Nepenthe@kbin.social -1 points 1 year ago

I want to be fired for sending an acronym in which one of the letters stood for a swear. Not even the dumbest thing that's ever happened to me. The ability to anger my boss via one letter being an A instead of a B should be a plus

Life is a joke so why not laugh at it.

[-] Holzkohlen@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

Life's a piece of shit when you look at it. 🎵

[-] samus12345@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

You'll see it's all a show

Keep 'em laughin' as you go

Just remember that the last laugh is on you!

[-] hyperplane@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago
[-] Katana314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago

I pretty much downvote any argument that is ended with an emoticon.

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