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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

She's almost 70, spend all day watching q-anon style of videos (but in Spanish) and every day she's anguished about something new, last week was asking us to start digging a nuclear shelter because Russia was dropped a nuclear bomb over Ukraine. Before that she was begging us to install reinforced doors because the indigenous population were about to invade the cities and kill everyone with poisonous arrows. I have access to her YouTube account and I'm trying to unsubscribe and report the videos, but the reccomended videos keep feeding her more crazy shit.

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[-] fennec@feddit.de 15 points 1 year ago

At this point I would set up a new account for her - I’ve found Youtube’s algorithm to be very… persistent.

[-] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 3 points 1 year ago

Unfortunately, it's linked to the account she uses for her job.

[-] ubergeek77@lemmy.ubergeek77.chat 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You can make "brand accounts" on YouTube that are a completely different profile from the default account. She probably won't notice if you make one and switch her to it.

You'll probably want to spend some time using it for yourself secretly to curate the kind of non-radical content she'll want to see, and also set an identical profile picture on it so she doesn't notice. I would spend at least a week "breaking it in."

But once you've done that, you can probably switch to the brand account without logging her out of her Google account.

[-] AvoidMyRage@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

I love how we now have to monitor the content the generation that told us "Don't believe everything you see on the internet." watches like we would for children.

[-] ubergeek77@lemmy.ubergeek77.chat 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

We can thank all that tetraethyllead gas that was pumping lead into the air from the 20s to the 70s. Everyone got a nice healthy dose of lead while they were young. Made 'em stupid.

OP's mom breathed nearly 20 years worth of polluted lead air straight from birth, and OP's grandmother had been breathing it for 33 years up until OP's mom was born. Probably not great for early development.

[-] cheeseblintzes@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Shoutout to lead paint and asbestos maybe?

[-] fluke@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Asbestos is respiratory, nothing to do with brain development or damage.

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[-] 001100010010@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 1 year ago

I'm a bit disturbed how people's beliefs are literally shaped by an algorithm. Now I'm scared to watch Youtube because I might be inadvertently watching propaganda.

[-] Mikina@programming.dev 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My personal opinion is that it's one of the first large cases of misalignment in ML models. I'm 90% certain that Google and other platforms have been for years already using ML models design for user history and data they have about him as an input, and what videos should they offer to him as an ouput, with the goal to maximize the time he spends watching videos (or on Facebook, etc).

And the models eventually found out that if you radicalize someone, isolate them into a conspiracy that will make him an outsider or a nutjob, and then provide a safe space and an echo-chamber on the platform, be it both facebook or youtube, the will eventually start spending most of the time there.

I think this subject was touched-upon in the Social Dillema movie, but given what is happening in the world and how it seems that the conspiracies and desinformations are getting more and more common and people more radicalized, I'm almost certain that the algorithms are to blame.

[-] archomrade@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago

100% they're using ML, and 100% it found a strategy they didn't anticipate

The scariest part of it, though, is their willingness to continue using it despite the obvious consequences.

I think misalignment is not only likely to happen (for an eventual AGI), but likely to be embraced by the entities deploying them because the consequences may not impact them. Misalignment is relative

[-] Ludrol@szmer.info 1 points 1 year ago

If youtube "Algorithm" is optimizing for watchtime then the most optimal solution is to make people addicted to youtube.

The most scary thing I think is to optimize the reward is not to recommend a good video but to reprogram a human to watch as much as possible

[-] Mikina@programming.dev 1 points 1 year ago

I think that making someone addicted to youtube would be harder, than simply slowly radicalizing them into a shunned echo chamber about a conspiracy theory. Because if you try to make someone addicted to youtube, they will still have an alternative in the real world, friends and families to return to.

But if you radicalize them into something that will make them seem like a nutjob, you don't have to compete with their surroundings - the only place where they understand them is on the youtube.

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[-] Ozymati@lemmy.nz 9 points 1 year ago

Log in as her on your device. Delete the history, turn off ad personalisation, unsubscribe and block dodgy stuff, like and subscribe healthier things, and this is the important part: keep coming back regularly to tell YouTube you don't like any suggested videos that are down the qanon path/remove dodgy watched videos from her history.

Also, subscribe and interact with things she'll like - cute pets, crafts, knitting, whatever she's likely to watch more of. You can't just block and report, you've gotta retrain the algorithm.

[-] sergih123@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Yeah, when you go on the feed make sure to click on the 3 dots for every recommended video and "Don't show content like this" and also "Block channel" because chances are, if they uploaded one of these stupid videos, their whole channel is full of them.

[-] lingh0e@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Would it help to start liking/subscribing to videos that specifically debunk those kinds of conspiracy videos? Or, at the very least, demonstrate rational concepts and critical thinking?

[-] RGB3x3@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Probably not. This is an almost 70 year old who seems not to really think rationally in the first place. She's easily convinced by emotional misinformation.

Probably just best to occupy her with harmless entertainment.

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[-] fuser@quex.cc 8 points 1 year ago

the damage that corporate social media has inflicted on our social fabric and political discourse is beyond anything we could have imagined.

[-] bouh@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Populism and racism is as old as societies. Anciant Greece already had it. Rome fell to it. Christianism is born out of it.

Funnily enough, people always complained about how bad their society was because of this new thing. Like 5 thousand years ago already. Probably earlier even.

Which is not to say we shouldn't do anything about it. We definitely should. But common sense won't save us unfortunately.

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[-] lemmylommy@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

In the google account privacy settings you can delete the watch and search history. You can also delete a service such as YouTube from the account, without deleting the account itself. This might help starting afresh.

[-] twistedtxb@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I was so weirded out when I found out that you can hear ALL of your "hey Google" recordings in these settings.

[-] Jackolantern@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Oof that’s hard!

You may want to try the following though to clear the algorithm up

Clear her YouTube watch history: This will reset the algorithm, getting rid of a lot of the data it uses to make recommendations. You can do this by going to “History” on the left menu, then clicking on “Clear All Watch History”.

Clear her YouTube search history: This is also part of the data YouTube uses for recommendations. You can do this from the same “History” page, by clicking “Clear All Search History”.

Change her ‘Ad personalization’ settings: This is found in her Google account settings. Turning off ad personalization will limit how much YouTube’s algorithms can target her based on her data.

Introduce diverse content: Once the histories are cleared, start watching a variety of non-political, non-conspiracy content that she might enjoy, like cooking shows, travel vlogs, or nature documentaries. This will help teach the algorithm new patterns.

Dislike, not just ignore, unwanted videos: If a video that isn’t to her taste pops up, make sure to click ‘dislike’. This will tell the algorithm not to recommend similar content in the future.

Manually curate her subscriptions: Unsubscribe from the channels she’s not interested in, and find some new ones that she might like. This directly influences what content YouTube will recommend.

[-] MrFagtron9000@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I had to log into my 84-year-old grandmother's YouTube account and unsubscribe from a bunch of stuff, "Not interested" on a bunch of stuff, subscribed to more mainstream news sources... But it only works for a couple months.

The problem is the algorithm that values viewing time over anything else.

Watch a news clip from a real news source and then it recommends Fox News. Watch Fox News and then it recommends PragerU. Watch PragerU and then it recommends The Daily Wire. Watch that and then it recommends Steven Crowder. A couple years ago it would go even stupider than Crowder, she'd start getting those videos where it's computer voice talking over stock footage about Hillary Clinton being arrested for being a demonic pedophile. Luckily most of those channels are banned at this point or at least the algorithm doesn't recommend them.

I've thought about putting her into restricted mode, but I think that would be too obvious that I'm manipulating the strings in the background.

Then I thought she's 84, she's going to be dead in a few years, she doesn't vote, does it really matter that she's concerned about trans people trying to cut off little boy's penises or thinks that Obama is wearing ankle monitor because he was arrested by the Trump administration or that aliens are visiting the Earth because she heard it on Joe Rogan?

[-] Andreas@feddit.dk 2 points 1 year ago

I think it's sad how so many of the comments are sharing strategies about how to game the Youtube algorithm, instead of suggesting ways to avoid interacting with the algorithm at all, and learning to curate content on your own.

The algorithm doesn't actually care that it's promoting right-wing or crazy conspiracy content, it promotes whatever that keeps people's eyeballs on Youtube. The fact is that this will always be the most enraging content. Using "not interested" and "block this channel" buttons doesn't make the algorithm stop trying to advertise this content, you're teaching it to improve its strategy to manipulate you!

The long-term strategy is to get people away from engagement algorithms. Introduce OP's mother to a patched Youtube client that blocks ads and algorithmic feeds (Revanced has this). "Youtube with no ads!" is an easy way to convince non-technical people. Help her subscribe to safe channels and monitor what she watches.

[-] eee@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Not everyone is willing to switch platforms that easily. You can't always be idealistic.

[-] Andreas@feddit.dk 1 points 1 year ago

That's why I suggested Revanced with "disable recommendations" patches. It's still Youtube and there is no new platform to learn.

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[-] djm@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Sorry to hear about you mom and good on you for trying to steer her away from the crazy.

You can retrain YT's recommendations by going through the suggested videos, and clicking the '...' menu on each bad one to show this menu:

(no slight against Stan, he's just what popped up)

click the Don't recommend channel or Not interested buttons. Do this as many times as you can. You might also want to try subscribing/watching a bunch of wholesome ones that your mum might be interested in (hobbies, crafts, travel, history, etc) to push the recommendations in a direction that will meet her interests.

Edit: mention subscribing to interesting, good videos, not just watching.

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[-] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Here is what you can do: make a bet with her on things that she think is going to happen in a certain timeframe, tell her if she's right, then it should be easy money. I don't like gambling, I just find it easier to convince people they might be wrong when they have to put something at stake.

A lot of these crazy YouTube cult channels have gotten fairly insidious, because they will at first lure you in with cooking, travel, and credit card tips, then they will direct you to their affiliated Qanon style channels. You have to watch out for those too.

[-] reverendsteveii@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

it took a total of one hour of youtube autoplay for me to go from "here's how to can your garden veggies at home" to "the (((globalists))) want to outbreed white people and force them into extinction"

[-] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 2 points 1 year ago

My sister always mocked her and starts to fight her about how she has always been wrong before and she just get defensive and has not worked so far, except for further damage their relationship.

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[-] choquel@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

i dont know but im just glad youre alive bc the fish bumped you out of the water with its nose

[-] zombuey@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

youtube has a delete option that will wipe the recorded trend. then just watch a couple of videos and subscribe to some healthy stuff.

[-] malcriada_lala@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

In addition to everything everyone here said I want to add this; don't underestimate the value in adding new benin topics to her feel. Does she like cooking, gardening, diy, art content? Find a playlist from a creator and let it auto play. The algorithm will pick it up and start to recommend that creator and others like it. You just need to "confuse" the algorithm so it starts to cater to different interests. I wish there was a way to block or mute entire subjects on their. We need to protect our parents from this mess.

[-] Chunk@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I curate my feed pretty often so I might be able to help.

The first, and easiest, thing to do is to tell Youtube you aren't interested in their recommendations. If you hover over the name of a video then three little dots will appear on the right side. Clicking them opens a menu that contains, among many, two options: Not Interested and Don't Recommend Channel. Don't Recommend Channel doesn't actually remove the channel from recommendations but it will discourage the algorithm from recommending it as often. Not Interested will also inform the algorithm that you're not interested, I think it discourages the entire topic but it's not clear to me.

You can also unsubscribe from channels that you don't want to see as often. Youtube will recommend you things that were watched by other people who are also subscribed to the same channels you're subscribed to. So if you subscribe to a channel that attracts viewers with unsavory video tastes then videos that are often watched by those viewers will get recommended to you. Unsubscribing will also reduce how often you get recommended videos by that content creator.

Finally, you should watch videos you want to watch. If you see something that you like then watch it! Give it a like and a comment and otherwise interact with the content. Youtube knows when you see a video and then go to the Channel's page and browse all their videos. They track that stuff. If you do things that Youtube likes then they will give you more videos like that because that's how Youtube monetizes you, the user.

To de-radicalize your mom's feed I would try to

  1. Watch videos that you like on her feed. This introduces them to the algorithm.
  2. Use Not Interested and Don't Recommend Channel to slowly phase out the old content.
  3. Unsubscribe to some channels she doesn't watch a lot of so she won't notice.
[-] Vex_Detrause@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Delete all watched history. It will give her a whole new sets of videos. Like a new algorithms.

Where does she watch he YouTube videos? If it's a computer and you're a little techie, switch to Firefox then change the user agent to Nintendo Switch. I find that YouTube serve less crazy videos for Nintendo Switch.

[-] lemonadebunny@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

change the user agent to Nintendo Switch

You mad genius, you

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