So for a few years I thought sharpening classes at woodcraft. Had a lot of new woodworkers come through. Here's my take:
Keep it simple at first. Get a coarse stone and a fine stone. Diamond plates are great for starting out. They are reasonably priced, stay flat, cut fast and give good tactile feedback. Practice with those until you get it right. Then make yourself a strop with a scrap of wood and some metal polishing compound. Practice with that until you get arm hair shaving results.
Once you're getting consistently good results with that setup you can think about expanding your equipment line up.