this post was submitted on 09 Jun 2023
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Lemmy

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Right now the user count Lemmys is comparatively tiny when held up against reddit - but the user count isn't the thing that makes a social media site, it's the engagement

So even if you're used to lurking, try to get a little more active! Post memes, vote on posts, talk in the comments, whatever!

If people come here and see activity, content, and discussions, they're more likely to stay and contribute their own - if they come and see a ghost town, they'll just go back to reddit

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[–] NataliePortland@lemmy.ca 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] a1studmuffin@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Cool, I didn't know we could embed images in posts and they'd show up inline. I wonder how long that will last, haha.

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[–] Skullfurious@lemmy.ml 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

I'll post my puppy everyone likes puppies.

[–] mattc@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

I don't often have anything to add, but here is my buddy.

[–] FlanFlinger@lemmy.film 4 points 1 year ago
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[–] carrot@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] CrayonMaster@midwest.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Watch me engage with someone

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[–] Scavenger_Solardaddy@lemmy.fmhy.ml 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Big time introverted lurker on reddit, since here is a much smaller community, I don't feel so intimidated. I'll try to be more active here. Let's do this guys, let's create a great place for all the Reddit Refugees. FUCK u/Spez!

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[–] flamingseaturtle@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

After 14 years on reddit I’m tired of watching it die, the death of Apollo is what pushed me over the edge, I loved Apollo. I’ve been browsing in here for the past few days. I like it. Trying to get used to it. Fuck reddit and u/spez all of the situation was trash. Thank you all for recommending this site!! I’m excited to be apart of it!

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[–] SeerLite@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Long time no see, Lemmy. I hope Reddit ending is for the best, and I hope all my precious communities migrate to open source software.

[–] Badger@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 1 year ago

Hey now, I lurked on Reddit for years and it grew to be a huge success. I'm ready to repeat this bold strategy!

[–] nwithan8@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Same problem Mastodon had, the content consumers joined, but the content creators didn't, so there was nothing on the platform to engage with.

And let's be real, Lemmy is going to face the same fate when inevitably the Reddit protest ends in a couple days and everyone goes back to Reddit. Reddit is going to survive.

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[–] G59@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

test comment please ignore

[–] Panda@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I saw Lemmy has already grown a lot over the weekend and I'm all for it getting bigger! To be honest I also feel a lot more motivated to actually post here instead of lurk.

And the community seems super nice so far!

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[–] 3ntranced@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Don't tell me what to do, I'll engage when I'm ready >:(

hol up

[–] Cyclonus@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Was lurking on Reddit for 10 years, made just 9 comments that whole time; when there's so much noise you don't feel you have much to add to the conversation. But us lurkers have a chance to be heard in a growing community and help shape it in some way, gotta get out of my comfort zone I guess.

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[–] golden_zealot@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Definitely. Everyone on Lemmy at this time seems very reasonable as well and I am finding that the discussion is typically of a much higher quality than on Reddit, so for those who don't usually engage, try it, it's definitely worth a shot here.

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[–] Alexxxolotl@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

Alright... this marks the end of my lurking lifestyle then, I guess ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

[–] foofiepie@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Hey people of the internet. So if I’m going to not lurk, and if I have a really weird sense of humour and am downright unfunny to most of my friends, where is my community here?

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[–] problem_chimp@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Using the jeroboa app rn and it's fairly intuitive.

[–] setInner234@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

Another lurker here. Been well over a decade and this is the first time I feel like contributing again. Really hope the fediverse catches on this time.

[–] Tythonis@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Silly question maybe. How do I search for other servers to join when in an app? Is it possible? I’m using memmy for iPhone.

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[–] Toldry@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago
[–] gangstamouse@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

I'm trying to not lurk, but it's a hard habit to break

[–] Ceasin@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I've pretty much been a lurker on reddit. Already have commented a bit on here. Probably about as much as I commented on reddit in a half years time.

[–] nathanpc@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (10 children)

I won't lie, if you look at my Reddit profile you'll see that I've commented more here in the last couple of days than probably the last 3 years on Reddit. The community just feels more welcome and I feel as if my comment will get read instead of being drowned out as it happens on Reddit.

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[–] Xylinna@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I was a Redditor for years and rarely posted anything and only sometimes commented. Predominantly a lurker but I have been doing my best to comment here the last few days, more than I have in the last 6 months on Reddit and feel less judged for comments. Reminds me of the early days of Reddit when things were simpler. Ah… very much a Pepperidge Farm remembers moment.

[–] Bluehood380@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago
[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

I think I've been more active on Lemmy in the past five days than I had been on reddit for the past 2 years.

Decentralization of social media is extremely enticing to me, and I really want this community to flourish, so I've been trying to make this into an active space.

It can be tough sometimes, but find those communities you already love and say something - even a little thing is engagement!

[–] nsh@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

It's hard being a lurker for so long, I only started interacting with a few smaller subreddits around sporting events and then within a year, all this crap started happening. Feel sorry for all the 3rd party developers, I used Boost and I'm glad I supported the developer over the years but can't believe how they ended up being treated. Death to Reddit

[–] dylan@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Trying my best! I have an account on lemmy.ml but with the increase in traffic I’m barely able to use it! Moving to this one which has already helped. Anyone reading this feel free to send a message and say hi!

[–] qprimed@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] dylan@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

Hello! I’m the same user, just moved to another instance!

[–] sdg@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

but i don't have anything to say

other than fuck spez of course

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[–] Veritrax@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I'm confused by Lemmy but also excited to try and help it grow.

[–] AFallingAnvil@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I've just created !board_games@lemmy.ca and !tabletop_rpgs@lemmy.ca, does that count? :P

[–] OrakMoya@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

I lurk most of the time because most of the time i have nothing to say

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