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[–] Asnabel@lemm.ee 71 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (5 children)

Remember guys and gals, it's not body shaming when men are on the receiving end!

[–] Lumidaub@feddit.de 34 points 11 months ago

"This person conducts themselves with a confidence that usually comes with physical traits typically considered desirable."

[–] Omega_Haxors@lemmy.ml 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

That's why I prefer 'big ballsack energy' It's something every male can achieve with enough waiting or the right diet.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 3 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Are you implying the term Big Dick Energy is body shaming men?

[–] criitz@reddthat.com 34 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Yes. It equates body types with positive/negative traits. ie. "Big dick energy" implies "small dick = bad"

[–] Touching_Grass@lemmy.world 15 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Can we shut the fuck up about being sensitive to everything. Just for a day. Sincerely guy with small dick. Its cold out. Always.

[–] flicker@kbin.social 29 points 11 months ago (1 children)

The thing about this is, you're saying you have a small dick, but this is big dick energy for real.

Maybe someone needs to come up with a better name for it because it's a very real phenomenon and most of us know exactly what it's referring to.

[–] synapse1278@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (4 children)

Maybe someone needs to come up with a better name

Confidence ? E.g: "he is very confident !" = "he has big dick energy !"

[–] ivanafterall@kbin.social 12 points 11 months ago (2 children)
[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Why must dicks be involved?

[–] problematicPanther@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

everything is better with dicks.

[–] lostme@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

Especially girls. My gf has a bigger dick than me and I couldn't be happier, no homo

[–] Zehzin@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

Grand Phallus Je ne sais quoi

[–] cgarret3@lemm.ee 6 points 11 months ago

The term is secure or self-secure.

As in: “it didn’t bother him because he is secure in himself”

[–] Num10ck@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago
[–] coconutking@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Yes; and more specifically, it’s a quiet confidence.

[–] killeronthecorner@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago (1 children)
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[–] criitz@reddthat.com 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Sorry that adapting is uncomfortable but no

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[–] Vampiric_Luma@lemmy.ca 2 points 11 months ago
[–] JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works 9 points 11 months ago

I think it's analogous to referring to balls the size of wrecking balls or something. I don't know of anyone who thinks bigger physical balls are superior to smaller balls, but the phrase is still common to denote courage. I think big dick energy is not as decoupled from people's biology as big balls, but it's still mostly decoupled in common usage.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 8 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I could see how the phrase implies that, however this meme subverts that by saying that dick size doesn't matter as much as your energy does. And the meme literally says that small dick energy is bad, not having a small pp.

[–] criitz@reddthat.com 12 points 11 months ago (8 children)

Small dick energy is bad but not small dicks? How does that make any sense. Think about it.

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[–] crystal@feddit.de 5 points 11 months ago

doesn't matter as much

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 3 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (9 children)

It does literally refer to penis size. Hiding it behind the word "energy" is just obfuscation. It reminds me of racist people defending the N word by saying, "there's black people, then there's Ns. Black people are fine, Ns aren't."

You're just kicking the can down the road. It's the exact same idea, phrased differently. You just wanna say "small dick" and get away with it, that's all.

[–] Zehzin@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

MFer did you just compare "small dick energy" to the n word 💀

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (13 children)

Did you just describe what I did in a reductive way, without even attempting to explain your point? Why should I listen to you?

Try attacking the idea itself: "You’re just kicking the can down the road. It’s the exact same idea, phrased differently."

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[–] Zehzin@lemmy.world 28 points 11 months ago

"A specter is haunting Europe, the specter of deez nuts"

[–] mycatiskai@lemmy.one 16 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Except when a lady friend wants a big dick, then all the big dick energy in the world isn't going to do a lick of good, that's when you have to bring out the lick of good.

[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

This is why I only get with ladies who like men that are the spitting image of Edgar Allen Poe. Never leave em disappointed.

[–] mycatiskai@lemmy.one 3 points 11 months ago

Is that why he grieved for lost Lenore, he couldn't find another who insisted on never more, just enough.

[–] paddirn@lemmy.world 14 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Can confirm, having a big dick really hasn’t helped me out.

[–] peopleproblems@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

Me neither. But, having big dick energy with a big dick is pretty awesome.

[–] problematicPanther@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

you don't get into dick measuring contests with your homies?

[–] paddirn@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

We prefer games of skill, like dick-sucking contests, so it’s not the size of your member that counts.

[–] jballs@sh.itjust.works 4 points 11 months ago

¿Porque no los dos?

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